Aiyoh, typed such a long post last night but system under maintenance mode, in the end, all gone. Luckily I copied and pasted onto my blog, so can still reproduce most of it.
Wendy, Sunday morning, brought RaeAnne went to see PD for the 5th time in the last 4 weeks liao. Her cough just didn't recover and she kenna diarrhoea on Sat. Super sianz. Now, PD said she has mild brochoasthma and the same allergy that caused her hives also caused the cough. I asked her what is the allergen, she said it could be dust mites, cockroach faeces etc but anyway, treatment is still the same. And this time, RaeAnne got a HUGE bottle of expensive cough syrup ($38) that will last her for 1.5 months, after that, still must go back and see PD cos need to take the cough syrup for 6 MONTHS!?! Faint lor, so 'sim tia' to see her taking medicine long term. Total PD damage yesterday - $87. This month spent more than $250 on PD visits liao.
Scared liao, sunday changed and washed my bedsheet and monday washed her bedsheets in case there's dust mites. Luckily she doesn't sleep in air con and thankfully, my PT cleaner came on Sunday so cleaned up the house. Right now, I'm also giving her DIY TCM, ground cordyceps and 'chuan bei' powder. Yesterday, also asked my mum to help me double boil cordyceps soup for her. My hubby very funny, he told my gal looks like you must drink Mummy's nen nen to be healthy. I told him can, but must wait for another 8 months leh. Once supply stop, cannot restore leh.
Anyway, after PD diagnose her with mild bronchoasthma, I've more or less decided on hiring a maid liao. Cost will be an concern but I can always send the maid back after a few years when the kids are bigger and more independent. If not, I won't have time to look after 2 kids and clean up the house religiously plus have my meals let alone BF/pump in peace. I think her recent PD visits is a wake up call, the children's health is top priority now, if money spent will lead to better quality of life for me and the kids then JUST DO IT.
Next step, must find a good maid agency and a good maid. Tough process cos heard so many complaints about maids. Looking around for a Burmese maid who can speak either Mandarin or English. Anyone has good agencies to recommend?
Kam, RaeAnne has been lifting my shirt to sayang and kiss baby since last week. Last sunday at the PD clinic, she saw so many babies and was so 'inspired' that she lifted my shirt to touch my tummy and lay her head on my tummy. Aiyoh, so embarrassing so I kept pulling my shirt down and said "No, cannot." In the end, she upset.
