Hen
Pat on your back. You are alread doing a great job. Don't be too hard on yourself. Anytime need to vent, just come in here. We're all ears.
Day time naps
My son's day time naps are usually very short - 30mins a pop every 3 hourly or so. But he usually doesn't sleep by late afternoon, i.e. he will stay awake from say 5pm till bedtime at 8-9pm. I only care for him full-time on weekends and I know his pattern. My MIL cares for him 5 days a week, so she surely knows him better. BUT every evening without fail, the moment I step into their house, they will complain non-stop "wah! he has been awake since 5pm and refused to sleep. We are very tired already! My hands are aching from carrying him. Blah, blah, blah ..."
Really like a broken record and I have decided to turn a deaf ear to these complaints because it just gets repeated EVERYDAY! No effect on me anymore.
Pat on your back. You are alread doing a great job. Don't be too hard on yourself. Anytime need to vent, just come in here. We're all ears.
Day time naps
My son's day time naps are usually very short - 30mins a pop every 3 hourly or so. But he usually doesn't sleep by late afternoon, i.e. he will stay awake from say 5pm till bedtime at 8-9pm. I only care for him full-time on weekends and I know his pattern. My MIL cares for him 5 days a week, so she surely knows him better. BUT every evening without fail, the moment I step into their house, they will complain non-stop "wah! he has been awake since 5pm and refused to sleep. We are very tired already! My hands are aching from carrying him. Blah, blah, blah ..."
Really like a broken record and I have decided to turn a deaf ear to these complaints because it just gets repeated EVERYDAY! No effect on me anymore.