lazykat,
yah i do have a helper. tat's where the financial strain come from. *sigh*
Tweetie,
i did take leave to try to unwind, but i always end up running errands for the family.
poissons,
i used to try the trick of telling J tat nobody will play with him if he's naughty. now he likes to tell us "I dun wan u!" when he's throwing tantrums. *pengz*
dreamer,
i have been so tied up with family & work tat I have not met with my frens for ages. i finnally met my 2 good frens last thurs & i realised the last time i saw them was 6 months ago!
missA,
J is actually a devil in angel's clothings. hahaha. last sat morn, we were at east coast park playing ball. he insisted on throwing & not kicking the ball. whenever we kick the ball, he will throw tantrum, sit on the ground, kick his legs & cry & fuss. An auntie was amused by his act & came over to play with him. Immediately he stopped his nonsense & kicked the ball to the auntie. He even tried to act shy. He knows who to bully. I think i spoilt him.
mummies,
thanks for all ur kind advise & comfort. All of u can handle so well even with 2 or more kids. i tink i'm just a lousy mummy. Everyday so busy & tired. Spend all my free-time with J yet he is so naughty. Really v depressing and heart-broken at times. Yday went to buy new roller-blades. Me & HB decided tat we should take a break from J for a least a couple of hours every week.