Cat:
Sorry, missed yr post coz too many to follow up over the weekend. First of all, sayang and hugz hugz (aiyoh, i can feel yr bones). Hee...i remember u're the skinnest amongst the rest whom met up at Merchant court for buffet dinner during our preggy time. Hopefully u can take gd care of yrself, physically and mentally to "bu" back yr "ying yang".
SAHM & ~!@#$%^&* boss
Like what the rest advised, u really have to think thru if being a SAHM suits u. Else, the situation may get worst. Guess if u can get a gd and realiable nanny, most of yr trouble will be solved. Coz nw seems like everything is putting a toll on u and u cant really concentrate and do yr wk. Plus, yr unreasonable and heartless boss asking u to stay bk after wk is making things worst. Settle things one at a time, try to get a gd nanny to take over from yr mum. Then she can continue to cook for yr dad and whenever they're free, they can drop by to see/play with Jovan. Guess that makes u less guilty esp yr dad wasnt feeling quite well months ago if i rem correctly. Perhaps by settling Jovan with a realiable nanny, u can better concentrate on yr wk and shut yr boss out! IF, u're still unhappy with yr job & boss, then start looking for new job. One thing at a time, dun stress yrself again with new nanny and new job at the same time.
Just to share. I recently changed a new job and is much happier. Not that i dun like my previous job and co., my bosses were great but i just needed a more pro family co and here i'm, a much happier person
tiffs with HB
It's no gd if two starts shouting at each other, it doesnt resolve the problem, only to make it worst. And, nw that Jovan starts to be more alert, it's not going to be healthy to quarrel in front of him.
Why not write to yr hubby to convey hw u feel if u two cant talk things out at this moment. Put the letter under his pillow or somewhere he'll see. Best if he can read it at night when he feels calmer. But, will not suggest this as a long term communication tool for couple. However, think u need to put the message across to him before u really breakdown.
Paisei for the long post. Ignore my suggestions if u find it unrealistic. Just my thots. Be happy, ok