thanks all for ur encouragement and concern. iwill be seeing the breasts surgeon first thing tomorrow. the swelling is actually getting better, but i jus wan to be safe cos if it gets worse over the weekends, then i will be in trouble. So far i have been latching Mischa and gritting my teeth whenever she latches on my swollen breast. i hope i m doing the right thing.
Cactus, no le not organising the Drugstore spree anymore. cos the packing and all is really 'xiong' hahhaa..and also paiseh everytime have to let mummies wait so long. someone selling the cream in the BP le. i think price is abt the same.
KAM, i second ur tots and 'theory'. My 5yrs old son and my gal too isnt in any kind of routine. I also feed and play with them taking their cue.
I did try on the GF routine but without success and decided nt to enforce any routine since she is growing well and so far ok with her daily activities.
initially i feel inadequate as a mummy when i see frens who follow routine. I feel that i dun discipline my kids well enough cos they dun hv fixed /regular sleeping hrs, playtime, and feeding time. Like u, my mum also belive in free play as long as bb are fine and nt demanding or have growing problems, we should let them have the freedom to do what they want. except bedtime i m quite strict cos its for health reasons that children should be asleep by a certain time at night.
Of course it'll be good if babies can follow a routine and parents are happy with it. jus to share my tot too.