hi mummies...
my girl hit a "new record" today... 9hours n she took less than 200ml of milk thru e botl.. she'd rather starve, n sleep.. but stil good mood enuf to smile at us when we talk to her.. but just REFUSE e bottle... im reli at my wits end liaoz.. tried calling TMC parentcraft but Mrs Wong too bz to respond either...
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<font color="ff6000">pig07</font>, u r reli a gungho mummy for planning #2 so soon... depending on ur health & ur childcare options, theres no reason y u cant start ur quest for #2 now ar...
i had 2 kids in 2yrs.. e age gap between my 2 kids are 12.5mths... but hv to admit, both are by accident. i was still bf-ing my #1 when i suddenly found myself preggy (with no menses b4hand). initially we wanted 3, but my hb turning 40 tis yr, im 30... so decided to close shop now lor...
e "con" of hving 2 kids with such small age gap is tat u or ur caregiver muz reli have patience + ENERGY + tolerance to take care of #1 who is super active, walking ard everywhere (unstably, so gotto monitor closely), exploring (i.e. touching, hitting) everything in e hse... n coping with a newborn who's temperament u havent familiarise yet...
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<font color="ff6000">poissons</font>, i think my mum opposite of urs..
in my case, she's constantly complaining & comparing my 2 kids.. cos gorgor is much easier bb to take care of (no feeding problem), plus tat time only 1, easier... meimei now feeding got problem, so whole day quite fussy n always needs to b carried/coax/etc... my mum can let meimei cry for so long until i BTH ask my maid quickly go carry meimei n make her stop crying... sometimes i stress myself n worry abt how badly meimei will be crying when i go back to work... then hb will scold me say i worry for nothing.. its still her granddaughter mah...