hi pig07,
you are so lucky, my first 3 weeks was hell, almost post natal blue, kept crying thanks to the CL, initially she played me out by saying she cannot come in sg when i give birth, only last min then say one week later, then when she came, she got problem with her personal hygiene too, kept on touching her oily face and put her hand inside her t-shirt and scratch her back. never wash hand b4 touch bb, told her to wash, she just rinse fingertips, asked her to use soap and kitchen towel to wipe dry, she use the dirty kitchen top towel which she also use to wipe the chopping board too, worse is first night already twice cannot wakes up to feed my bb, i need to wake her up and woke up liao, blur blur, made the milk like doing cocktail, shaking it until a layer of foam and told me if not, powder will not melt totally and best part, for 60ml of milk she used 30ml normal temp and 30ml boiled water.
I threw a pet bottle away to the rubbish bin, she picked it up and used it to contain cool water to make milk for my bb and the way to handle my bb, terrible, just pull the clothes out from my bb that he screamed and when she put my bb down to the cot, so rough that my bb rolled over to his side.