sorry for tis long post.. too agitated when talking abt tis incident
remember i told u all there's a 'complaint queen' (CQ) on 2nd day of schl?
we kena fm her again last thurs.. agggrrr!! she approached us @canteen during dismissal, asking my gal howcome she knocked her gal's head & call her gal CQ? my gal was shocked to such approach & she kept quiet. seeing no reply, CQ repeat the sentence 2me hoping i ans. i inturn asked CQ's gal, y my gal wanna knock her head & call her names? didnt she rpt 2 teacher? she cant ans & jus say不知道. i then asked my gal, she said jus playing w her classmate mah (showing me action of knocking door 2x) & she called her CQ cos she duno her name. (actually CQ is a nick i gv tis mummy when telling my gal 2 avoid her daugther as much as possible cos she likes 2 complain on little tiny winy matters, i hv bn telling my gal dun ever mention CQ infront of them if nt sure get into trouble & 'bingo' it happened! i must b careful nt 2 talk rubbish infront my kids, they really picked up v fast!). anyway.. CQ told my gal she can beat her gal anywhere but dun knock her gal's head cos she duno the force my gal imply on her gal's head?? (i dun tink my gal wud b so violent towards her friends). i told her we both parent not at site during incident, we dun even know wat happened, if she wants 2 find out more/persue the matter, we shd approach the form teacher (tat time teacher still in canteen talking to another mummy).. CQ quickly said no need la, teacher sure too busy 2knw wat happened. precisely.. if v serious case, teacher sure will b alerted & both parents call in le. then i turned 2tell my gal.. dun ever get involve w CQ gal nor touch her gal (so suay my gal sit nxt 2her in class, hiaz). aft tat we walked away. who know CQ & her two other friends (also w kids in P1) walk same direction (CQ block is opp mine). my hb away tat time so we walked home. my gal's buddy's bd last thurs, she was waiting for my gal outside the schl gate to gv her goodies bag. after taking the goodies bag & quick chat w her buddy, we continue our way. my gal so stupid still run 2 chase after CQ gal & gv her a jelly & a colourful pencil her buddy gaves her.. CQ then paisay tell her gal 2 say thk q to my gal. then i tell CQ.. tis wat i meant, children one min so good so min fighting.. how to b so 'serious' w them? she kept quiet... i asked my gal y wanna share her gift w CQ's gal, she said she also her friend mah! really BTH every little tiny winy matter she must comes after us leh... must go & 打小人 then can, hiaz.. jus ysterday form teacher told me my gal quite playful in class (she confiscated one of the wrist belt she bought fm bookshop, warned her 3x dun play in class still dun listen so she took it away) i told her ya, my gal v playful & stubborn, need her help to keep an eye & discipline her as necessary. i told her i dun wish to get complaint fm other parent again, the teacher ask which one, i told her abt CQ & she shake her head & tell me she also bth CQ... almost everyday going aft her for tiny winy tings!!