Goldpiggy
I think your tiredness is due to lack of sleep.. I think u better try to be a bit hard-hearted towards your boy, not to nurse him when he woke up in the mid of nite.. slowly he will wean off, because u need to work the next day. He is a big boy now mah.. try to drink more soup (like those black herbal chicken) or a bit of "bu" stuff during your lunch time.. When u are tried, your temper will go haywire, and u will feel your boy irritates you even more..
I feel more tired when screaming at my girl or spanking her unless she did dangerous stuff.. if just pure naughty, I would really just look at her and show her the angry face.. still whine and cry, fine, i will walk away!
Loh
Cant be too frendly to kids one, later on they step onto your head! My girl knows when is the right time to give the muackk and when is the time when i get really angry.. i would say it's cute when she is walking around and suddenly call me: mummy, give me a kiss.. when i am angry, adn she knows she is wrong, she will want to kiss me, i let her kiss but still talk to her what makes me angry. dun care if she gets it or not lar, just want to let her know that dun think after kissing everything is fine! hahaha