(2007/03) March 2007 MTBs


michelle: u post the same way using mac or windows. to forum
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mommies... i m back... just finished eating my supper... feel like crying already... don noe how to handle...

bel vomited striaght away after her last milk feed... she nv finish her milk... den i quickly pull a plastic bag and catch her vomit... after she finish, i put the bag aside... den i put her down on the bed... she vomit again... den i carry her up, quickly go to the dusbin in my room.. didn manage to aim into the dustbin, so end up on the floor... den i run to toilet... she vomit in the toilet... so both of us bath... after bath i go back to the room and put her down, she vomit again... den i run to kitchen basin... no vomit... when i walked away, she vomit on the floor... den no choice, we go KK immediately...reach downstair while waiting for nick to drive over... before getting into the car, she vomit again... in the car also vomit... reach KK while waiting for Q also vomit... den i nv wait, i just dash into the counter and shout at the nurse to see mi first... cannot wait liao... after tt bel still crying badly... but nv vomit liao... cos there is nth in her stomach anymore... her lips are dry and purple... don dare to feed water... worried she vomit.. so play with her... give her brouchure, packet drinks, her health booklet... den she laugh... den give water... but after tt vomit the water out... ai ya...terrible...

dr said is due to a substance in the med tt cause her to throw everything out... the med is suppose to help her to throw the phlegm out... but is not this way... cos it make her feel uncomfortable... so she gave another med tt wont feel so uncomfortable... but naturally throwing the phlegm out... or dissolve the phlegm... also gave the suppository for high fever... and change all the med...

pax,
u are right... is the med tt makes her vomit like mad... didn see her vomit like this before...

after everything.. mi and nick feel so stupid going to KK... cos is just veri little thing... not those super emergency thing...
 
yvonne,
sounds bad for bel...aiyo, u dun think of it this way...u and nick not stupid lah. who will expect this leh...better to go and check out than guess and bel keep vomitting...

hope bel will feel better soon..u take care of yaself too hor...must be a tiring day for all of u...
 
Autumn,
I had the M maid for only 3 days. She was not interested in the children at all and it was soo obvious dat i din want to waste anybodys time.

Communication wise, I prep myself before her arrival. I made a list of words, instructions and got the agent to translate for me. One thing to NOTE is unlike bahasa indonesia, burmese character is like chinese, arabic characters, so the translation goes from the character(which the maid reconises) to a pingyin (which helps us to pronounce the word) to a english word.

Its not easy coz if u do not pronounce the word correctly, the maid fails to understand. So i had the list pin on the fridge and pointed to wadever i wanted to say. The maid understands by looking at the burmese character. (So ur list must be COMPREHENSIVE)

The funny thing is if u ask these M maid to read english off a magazine or phamplet, they actually can do it. But unfortunately. Most of the time, they do not understand what they are reading.
 
Morning mummies!! How's everyone doing?? No one looking for me hor..except bbmouse. i think she hang pig's head liao. heee...
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Well, not gd for me for the past daz. Poor appetite at dinnertime. Hate to eat at inlaw's hse nowadays. Preferred to have sandwich instead. Bfast and lunch still ok...only dinner time is the worse.

Yvonne, hope bel recovers soon.
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bbmouse, i trsf the payment for FC & CP liao.
From UOB to POSB will take 2-3days.

From : Savings A/C 146-101-871-3 SGD
To : mickeymouse 150280532
Amount : SGD93.52
Transfer Date : 10/07/2008 (Immediate)
Transaction Reference : 100001029037605



Linda,belle,garfield - i will collect ur loots for u gals. Meeting bbmouse this sat.
 
So wad's the HOT topic these daz? I guess i dun hv time to read back archives. Can anyone update me??

Or any mummies wif gd news to share?
 
Bbgal,
TT S$ 49.94. Ref: 1343. Thank u.
BBmarch contacted u oredi?? She ok??

blur,
WAhahaahhaahah..... eh, u know dat i meant chloe! U know dat time at toyrus sale, pete was with chloe while u went shopping ard. I approached chloe and said "Hello Blur, how are u?" LOL......

Hey, u sis maid sounds good. Chloe is in good hands.
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Pax,
U take care lei.... Rest, rest, rest!

edde,
Hows anthea this morning?? Feeling beta?

Astro,
u take the 6" and enuff?? My lunch is always the 1 foot with meal. Me glutton. :p

QQ,
Ahahahaaha... when i read ur post abt ur viet nod-nod guy, I tink of the indians shake head guys i always encounter. Everything u ask, they will do their head twirl. And dat is a yes. LOL.....
 
Autum, u had Subway yday? me too...bought a foot long home last nite. Managed to finish 3/4 of it then hb sub the last bit. He said its v nice and healthy.
 
Yvonne,
Bel feeling beta??
U are nt wrong to chiong to KK lar. Excessive vomitting will lead to dehydration and dat can lead to death one lei... dun play play.

bbmarch,
U are back! Wadever u crave, juz eat. Ur ILs will understand.
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bbmarch,
There was a Crocs spree dat came and went, a jacob ballas gathering on this sunday (i tink), Shannie joined the Q behind u, Autumn looking for a maid, discussion on adultery..... Eh... cant remember liaoz. :p
 
morning...

bbmarch,
thanks... eat more subway... heee...

linda,
she nv cought from last nite when we reach home... hopefully she clear all the phlegm... but den she is super drowsy from all the vomitting and fever med... till now she is still sleeping... she will make some sound when she saw mi coming into the room with her milk... but she got no energy to move... so i carried her to feed... she is like those infant now... whole body machiam veri fragile like tt... no reject no fuss... so sad...
 
Linda, tks for the update.

Autum, i might nid to look for maid soon. Till now, my stubborn hb still cant accept the fact the adv of having a maid when #2 comes along.


Aiyah, gonna miss the gathering again. Alrdy had something on.
 
yvonne: hope bel feel beta after changing med. vomit until like this of cos we as parents will be v worried. dun feel stupid la. we not doctors wat.
 
bbmouse,
don noe if i missed ur post... did u receive the payment?

i feel like smashing my thermometer... forever low temp... but bel's body is super hot... when i test it on mi, is normal... wierd...
 
carol, i b hm this sat. u can pop by to get ur bks. If not, gotto wait till my ON stuffs arrive then i pass to pink and u can get fr her.
 
autum,
how do u use the suppository? the dr ask mi to chop it into half den insert... is urs also like tt? and need to insert veri deep? or just push the bullet in can liao?
 
carol,
she is now taking the normal chlorpheniramine and ventolin and paracetamol... veri mild.. but given a acetylcysteine to force the phlegm out... i hope it dissolve la... don make her vomit again... cos this one also will make her vomit... but not as uncomfortable as the one she took before...
 
yvonne, u oso must take and dun tire out. When kids are sick, we adults will be v shagged. Nic not taking leave to help??
 
Yvonne,
Lidat aso good lar. Both she and u can rest. U better rest more otherwise when she is well, u won get to rest liaoz.
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Since she not moving, remove her pampers and air her bum lar. And WATER PARADE to flush out the medication.

U only got 1 thermometer?? Go get another and try again. Bel might be flushed not fever.
 
yvonne,
no need to chop into half. just insert can liao. cos the sup has a wax coating, so it's very smooth. u can also put the sup medicine in the fridge.. then when u take out, it's cold. u lay Bel to lie on her side.. then put her legs to like a cycling a position..while she is lying on the side.. then u push in slowly.

Bel may use her anus muscle to push out the sup cos she may feel scared or uncomfy.. u just distract her attention.. like maybe sing/talk to her.. or let her hold her toy.. if she ok, dun struggle, she won't push out the sup with her anus muscle..
 
Yvonne,
the suppository you got from dr might be Voren. Cut into half cos the dosage too high if use full. Just push in abit, then cannot see it liao. It's like soap, very easy get into.
 
bbmarch: ok i try to collect this sat. will call u.

mickey: interested to see your very 1st sb lo. blur the faces & post here la
 
bbmarch,
nick is a night owl.. he nv slp for the whole last nite to monitor her temp... so i take charge in the morning... this morning 6am he still ask mi if wan to bring us out for a short walk later... lol... i told him bel like tt still can go out meh? but den, bel is active in the day... so we feel is ok... onli at nite, she abit heywire...

autum, huingee,
ok... dr gave diclofenac... don noe itzzit same as voren... is veri long lei... almost like adult kind... but slimmer... yes, she said the dosage too high if use full... so must chop... itzzit veri hard to chop? will break into pieces anot... till now i still don have to use first... she gave 3 to stand by...
 
joelle,
hahaha... let me try out first lah..... dare not bring my cakes and muffin to let you try... so far i've only mastered chessecake and it's those non-bake version..
 
bbmarch,
don noe... she said can use to push down the temp if her temp goes too high... maybe because the paracetamol she gave is the low dosage one...
 
yvonne,
if your doc say must chop half, then of course u chop half. i thot u are asking if it is easier to insert if u do half by half.
 
yvonne, just b careful cos its a kind of painkillers. Dun take too much lor.

For me, im allergic to both panadol and diclofenac. So if fever, i can only take cold shower to lower the temp.
 
Morning ...

Yvonne,
read that Bel's not feeling well? Is she better liao?

QQ,
I'm ok with any arrangement for 19th Jul.

pinkpink,
the Jacob Ballas like not good business leh. Or is it too rush for the mummies to make arrangement for this Sun?

Autum,
my HB was from Radin Mas Pri. But thought the school closed down liao? He mentioned that it used to be one of the few good ones around that vicinity.

re: gerber puffs
RR like that alot too. They can finish a whole bottle within a day!!

re: maids
I also think communication is a big problem. If can't communicate, even she's very good also no use. Like my maid, she still has her phil accent when she speaks. I'm used to that liao cos I face her more. Then when it comes to my HB giving instructions, she'll always get it wrong or they don't understand what each other are talking about. So now I'll always be the messenger between them.
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Think Enne's godma runs a maid agency for phil maids, right? Maybe you can check with her. I've got another friend who got her phil maid thru a-one-man-show agency. This owner goes to philipines to source and interviews the maids. She told her that she has to get the good ones and train them well cos if rejected, she won't have places to send them to cos she's only running a very small setup. So far, 3 of my colleagues had got their phil maids thru her, so far so good. I can get the contact from you if you want.
 
Yvonne,
I tink the supp is soft, soft waxy material, so it will be ez to cut when its at room temp. Cut liaoz den chill back so dat it is ez for insertion.

Is bel allergic to panadol?? If not, the supp should be ok. It is panadol aso.
 
Since on the topic of maid, any mummies who had renewed their maids before?
Linda??

My maid's contract's due next Mar. Just wanna check what I should do if we wants to renew her contract and do we need to give her a pay increase?
 
Yvonne,
Cos supp goes inside the body faster then med thru mouth. Hence if temp goes too high, use supp faster to push temp down.
If it's similar to panadol, then must 4 hours gap between panadol. If Voren is diff from panadol can give even if just given panadol.
 
Yvonne - I dun feel that you and nick are stupid to bring bel to KK. We will do the same too...perhaps rush into the doc rm then to the nurse counter. Who will not be worried leh? I read the post also "xin tong." Hope that bel is on her way to recovery as I post my message.

Autum - I think it all depends on luck to get a good maid..actually good is hard to define also. Keke...few days back, as some of the mummies were posting the bad & good points about their maid...it strucks me that the maid have pretty similiar issues. Hee...but me had to think so hard why I should keep mine, cos Dylan doesnt like her...cant justify ;P

Linda - I took your advice...doing nothing but sleep in peace at hme yesterday...drink coffee, read paper, watch TV....wow...today, I feel so much better and refreshed. Yes, you are right...it makes a much more better mum!
 
irin
if jacob ballas garden is confirmed, wat time is good? no timing yet, so most cannot decide or plan.

jacob ballas garden
Date: 13th July
Time: to be confirmed

1. Irin
2. Pinkpink
3. Angel
4. Astro (if sundays, not 19th, and from 4 plus..)


autum
EJ's hair more and getting longer, more and more handsome. if im leia, i will fall for him. hahhaa
 
huingee,
this one onli can use max 2 in 24hr... cos i think is higer dosage den normal oral panadol...nvm, so far so good... her temp still maintain... if not i will sponge her...

linda,
ai ya... i put in fridge liao... the instruction says must store in fridge... so nick put everything inside... now my fridge look 10% like bar counter... u can see alot of miniture coloured alcohol(bottles of med...)...
 
tay,
thanks...

oh ya... mommies... yesterday weight bel's weight... she is 13.9kg!!! i keep double comfirm with the dr if is her weight machine spoil...
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and i told her she is not eating well... how can she gain so much weight...
 
yvonne
poor bel, why the doc gave the 1st med in the first place! u take care and dun be overstress, i know its tough but chat here to release a bit ok

Tay
if dylan doesnt like her, gone case.
 
autum,
you put on 20kg last preg? then how you lose them all so soon! so good!

joelle
can. i buy the coffeebean cheese cake for you. won't torture you with my homemade ones. haha...

astro
me too! my hubby remarked yesterday that i probably just need to breathe in air in order to lose weight. drink water also cannot. cos i complained that i dun eat that much and still this size
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pax
matt is a good boy
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he will self entertain

yvonne
allergy to medicine is no joke! it's NOT a small thing, you shouldn't feel stupid at all! *hugz*
 
yvonne
if M or Jo vomit like Bel, we would also rush to kkh liao.. hope Bel get well soon. has she woke up? if she's still having a fever and lethargic, not active as usual, then bring her to GP again... poor Bel..
 
Yvonne
Why not stay at home to let bel rest for these 2 days.
The weather these 2 days seems unpredictable.
Think Nick's intention is to cheer you both up but I rather be at home to build up bb 'strength' 1st.

Mickey
Can I ask BBmar to pass you my stampers so tat my hubby can collect all from u?

Pink
Do you think 12pm @ jacob ballas garden is a gd idea?
 
Irin,
Never renewed. Maid all earn enuff to set up biz. :p

For maid WP renewal, need to adjust maid salary (coz exp and none exp are diff rate) unless ur maid so good as to accept the same salary.

1. U need to buy her tix for homeleave. Using the date on return airtix, submit date and tix for MOM verification.
2. If she dun wanna go home, can renew immediately.
3. Buy all the neccessary insurance, bond for renewal. Obtain the serial no. of all the documentations.
4. Fill up the renewal form (Auto will send from MOM) or do it online (I do for FW but DFW aso can)
5. MUST return the existing WP card. MOM will issue new one.
6. Once approved, need to go for medical checkup.

Eh... this is the sequence for Foreign workers. But I removed the courses dat FW need to attend liaoz, so this is modified for Domestic FW. (My agaration.)
 



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