Huajing,
i m not really sure if it's the same dept we are talking about.. but i guess so la.. cos my friend told me before it's really stressful because they can't talk about their work/life.. so i think gradually it affects other areas of their lives.. anyway, i used to know 2 friends work there.. but they both left liao.. long time back. Whatever the case, you try your best to have good talk with him, when his mood is better. I think it's really not easy.
I never worry about hubby go overseas.. cos he go so often.. last time i used to take note exactly where he goes.. like the city, the hotel name, the address etc.. now i can't be bothered liao. Not that I can't be bothered.. but really not so much energy to care about all the details.
i m not really sure if it's the same dept we are talking about.. but i guess so la.. cos my friend told me before it's really stressful because they can't talk about their work/life.. so i think gradually it affects other areas of their lives.. anyway, i used to know 2 friends work there.. but they both left liao.. long time back. Whatever the case, you try your best to have good talk with him, when his mood is better. I think it's really not easy.
I never worry about hubby go overseas.. cos he go so often.. last time i used to take note exactly where he goes.. like the city, the hotel name, the address etc.. now i can't be bothered liao. Not that I can't be bothered.. but really not so much energy to care about all the details.