bbgirl, rest as much as u can.
I'm not scaring u but i wanna tell u what i know ah.
my mil said:
- normally 2nd child is not easy to bring up, meaning will have more problems when young. maybe more crying, more winds in tummy. then main reason is mother's body has been used once for 1st bb, and maybe not fully recovered (fully nourished) for 2nd bb. but if the body got enough BU3 during confinement and after that, then should be ok.
so during 1st trimester, mother should drink chicken essence (self boil type, those juice from chicken) so that mother's body will gain enough bu3 for the little one to grow in the 2nd/3rd trimester. but the BAD thing about drinking chicken essence during 1st tri is mama might get very fat (like me last time, i dun take diligently though). my mum also told me the samething, but she has no reasoning, she oni told me if drink the chicken juice, then bb will be easy to care in the 1st 6 month.
so, its common to feel tired during 2nd pregnancy.