SQ: if u dun need to wean her, then dun wean lor.. actually i also cannot remember why i wean cos no exact urgency but i am glad i weaned cos i realised that she was actually not getting quality sleep when i was still Bfing her anyway, i weaned her at 26 mths, i tot that was also long enuff for Bf liao.
Yvonne: hang in there think her crying and waking is more the illness.. it WILL get better and better.
Juni: good to see u here again, long time never see u on the forum.
Anyway, i could not wean gradually cos rae was damn stubborn when it comes to BF, when she see me = BF, she dun want any other, so gradually weaning was not possible for me.
when i ask rae now, if she wants my "milk milk" she say no, she is a big girl already and that my breast is "lar lar" means spicy cos i used medicated oil the last time.. hehehe