AAA
i brought seth to pediaoptix at shaw house (the arcade next to isetan) it's an optical shop w a certified optometrist. it's a simple test, the kid is made to look at a 'gun' that shoots colorful images... then the computer will show the eye distance n power... it checks for lazy eyes, and long/short sightedness... costs $75 i find rather ex leh... but at least gives ease of mind lo. =p
huajing
i think if u want the maid to listen to u, then u gotta let ur hb pass the authority to u. let him take a step back n boh chap the affairs at home.. then u can have full control. if he is in charge, of cos the maid dun listen to u ma. but u r the one who is at home all the time, so u shd be the commander of the house...it's difficult if ur maid has to follow ur hb's orders and u cannot overwrite him.
pink
i agree, u shd let enya have more tummy time leh. at the moment, it's normal for the head to go forward cos it's heavy ma. limit the bumbo sitting to no more than 15 min each time lo. more tummy time lets her build up her neck muscles too!