(2007/03) March 2007 MTBs


AAA,

My agent is Besthome at Thomson plaza. The number is 65542822. Look for Eny, she's the one who served me. But I heard Jessica also not bad. My cousin intro me de, she also good a good indo transfer maid from this agent. Her maid is very good with children.

QQ,

Ah, I see. Then he is for real. My teacher refers to my secondary school chinese teacher. He said a lot of all these stuffs in school one lar. Dunno what is he thinking. Chinese never really teach, tell us stories of ghosts, heaven and hell, haha.
 
mejo
ur teacher sounds like an interesting character!
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AAA
why dun you employ your cl as nanny to look after the kids? then the maid do housework and help out here and there
 
SQ,

Honestly, I can't remember which part is it exactly. Haha. Maybe I should ask my other classmates and see if they remember.
 
mist
your maid help much? i intend to have another maid till enya turns 3.

hiaz. just had an argument wif mr tan, have to go back to work tomorrow again. feeling super down.
 
Mummies: thanks for the concern.. today i feel better than yesterday. at least. i did not tear
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i guess yh's twice admission into the hospital in less than 3 mths has worn me out emotionally.. so a simple flu (though a v bad one)in the household freaks the hell out of me.

yh's nose and phelgm has cleared significantly.. no longer coughing with phelgm nor having a blocked runny nose. but he is pooing a lot.. small sticky amts . i guess it is his system of clearing out the phelgm residue.. so i think it is still gd. but the poor boy coz of pooing so frequently. has interrupted sleep throughout the day. as soon as he dozes off.. he wakes screaming.. then he pooes.. think he has a lot ot wind resulted from the intake of the antibiotics.. poor boy.. again tying this while carrying him to sleep. he is exhausted..

teng.. nose still super blocked. fever under control.. erm. only comes back if panadol is given 6 hourly. i think i shd maintain a strict 4 hourly interval.. eating more.. but nose v badly bloked.. active and in good spirit.. well.that's good.. i thought i saw his lymph nodes more swollen today.. so i called up Dr ong..

i think yesterday i was freaked out coz the PD said if teng's swollen lymph nodes dun go down.. and get bigger.. need to bring to surgeon.. i was like.. huh? lymphoma ah? cancer ah?!

but teng today more active. nose still super blocked.. he is breathing thru his mouth..fever undercontrol.. but i thought i saw the lymphs more swollen..

called up pd.. she explained.. if more swollen plus red red plus pain.. then it is an abecess forming.. which is the surgeon part she was talkingabout..

i asked not lyphoma (cancer) hor.. she laughs and said.. cancer is slowly swollen one. not swollen suddenly.. somehow i hear that i feel much better even if it is abecess! (Touchwood)..

my mum still coughing away. i think it will take another one week for my household to return to normalcy.. well.. what to do? haiz.. meanwhile.. just bear with it then..

ash/titu: thanks.. yes.. a passing phrase. i am trying v hard not to fall into that self fulfilling prophecy.. trying v hard.. coz when preg with yh. one promise i tell myself is to let go.. and not be so hung up abt routine/schedules.. shd-bes etcs.. and really enjoy rayan because i miss out on rayner's first 3 mths badly.. not the slightest memories.. onli knows loads of crying and stress.. this time it is much better.. at least i have smiled at rayan!

i was telling miser last night over dinner.. rayan is loads more interactive than teng.. he loves to coo and smile and chuckle.. teng i dun remember so.. miser said. got lah. just that i was in depression and i dun remember! wah liew

then i told him i was v stressed last night.. he said this is normal.. and in a very serious tone.. said.. post natel depression hits the most during the 3rd -4th months.. the worst is at 4th mth. i was impressed that he was so well read lei so i asked him where he go that info from.. he v matter of factly said .. 'well it has happened before.. and it is happening now again'.. wah liew! then he laughed.. he was laughing at me! :S
well well well..

germaine: miser last night tried to come back earlier. today he went to work slightly later.. he said he will be home by 7pm. to get us dinner.(coz ellie can't manage to cook dinner with cranky yh . i was running after teng.. war zone today! so i toldher not to cook lah)..

and wrt to sticking to dr ong. .. i like her lah. confident and knows what she is talking abt
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RR: omg.. hope u are feeling better.. the stupid bug stucks..

pink: in the initial mth.. i was looking after yh 24/7.. i think i was having the blues than as i was trying to bf.. and refuse to let anyone touch yh.. becoz i thought they all cannot do the job. but slowly. ellie took over.. till now. most of the time.. she is handling him :p.. my mum plays with yh when he is awake and happy.. freeing ellie to do the household chores and cook.. on a typical day. i feed yh, give to mother to play.. ellie cooks dinner and do household chores while i go fetch teng.. then come back.. ellie has fed yh n gaave him his med. but he cranky now. i need to carry him to sleep. while my mum and ellie jaga teng.. and miser ?.. he comes back when dinner's cooked and there;s peace coz yh has slept.. wah liew. chey..

AA: i read ur story til blur.. u changed so many maids!

QQ: i asked LV that day if got vacncies.. they say full iao.. i asked how long the waiting lsit. the deputy principal asked 'public or staff?'.. i replied public.. she smiled and said priority given to staff wor..

hj: let me tell u how the virgo man thinks. they needs facts and 'proof' to make a decision. and often.. such evidence needs to come from thier own observations n conclusion.. others' testimonies are less credible... so in ur case. unless u have concrete evidence. it is difficult to convince him to change for u.. my suggestion. u just change her.. at most quarrel nia mah.. will pass also. this issue. dun give in..
how i konw? remember my hb is also a virgo man.. haiz..
 
pink: why is mr tan asking u to go back to work while u are in confinement? u are his wife lei. and u just given birth to his daughter.. go back and work?.. wah liew. i thought his own biz. he can be more flexi?

ladies.. now i got another interesting situation. this yh is angry at my left breast leh. he refuses and wld scream to suckle the left b.. coz i think the flow is v slow and only half the amt of the right.. so he prefers the right and refuses the left.. wah liew.. like that also can..any suggestions how to remedy this? already my right boob is bigger than the left liao!.. and coz right boob though provides the majorit of the yeild.. still not the complete feed. then he not full. will scream and yell ..n wake up earler.. vexed over this.. wanted give up bf yesterday!.. but today still taking fenugrrek. pump n latch.. chey!.. making life tough for myself.. so silly.. haiz
 
astro
my right breast's supply is also more than the left one! i tried letting enya latch on right and she managed to latch, quite impatient when she's hungry, but she tend to doze off after a short while so i didnt let her latch the left one. i have no solution too, so pump lor, so she cant choose!

hiaz...its a report which cannot be handover, its too complicated and money involved, so i have to be the one. sometimes im envious of my colleagues, can just go on leave with no worries. well, pros and cons of being the employer. and some hr issues which i disagree with him. he said i give him black face as if he's the one who is unreasonable and force me to go back, but i cant help feeling frustrated!
 
astro
btw, good to hear that you are letting ellie and your mum take over, good move since u sort of know you were feeling blue. this time YH is unwell, really no choice, u just have to think positive. it will be fine soon! all babies will go thru this phase of falling sick, jiayou!

u taking fenugreek? u drink oat? i think it helps leh, like wat bunnie said..i have more supply than previous, quite contented, not enough i supplement. dun want to overstress myself.
 
astro, i am impressed by mr kong. haha!!!
cheer up too! ok?

pink, i have things to buy. was thinkig to place order myself cause i got vpost delivery but i am drained and no energy. i go paste links for u. ok?

can get 20% discount if u key in the code . but i think the code expired liao.

http://www.disneystore.com/pj-pals-little-einsteins-june-annie-pj-pal/pdo/1236070/14609/
5T (if no size drop)
$5.99

http://www.disneystore.com/disney/store/DSIProductDisplay?storeId=10051&productId=1257281&categoryId=11823&catalogFromSearch=10003&catalogId=10002&langId=-1
(u buying one set right? i buy another one. two for $20)
thanks
 
joelle,
oh, why u looking for Tooth Mousse also? U want to get for Seth ah? hmm, so what the counter uncle at Dental Health told me is true afterall. about it being sold at $40 at private dentists.. i went back to the website I posted on Tooth Mousse, and realised that the $24.95 is AUD.. so after conversion plus shipping, i think will be about $40 too.

If you really need to get, you go to the Dental Health place la. $21 is worth it leh.
 
Pink,
hmm, can work at home? try not to go to office bah. it can be quite depressing. but if work needs to be done, it needs to be done.. haiz, own business is like that. hope things go smoothly for you.

QQ,
disney got things to buy ah. i go see.
 
Astro,
good that your Miser has shown much support now. i think everything is also due to being more experienced (with 2nd child) etc.. so just continue to jia-you!
 
autum. got la. pyjamas lor. haha!!!
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astro, i calleed LV but they dun let me write down my name le. cause full liao. even wait list also full.
 
pink i also want to get disney items, let u know later k , hv to put chloe to zz land first.

QQ
communication book arrh, i ever missed putting back into chloe's bag, but never once the teacher miss.. during PG time, chloe always comes back not finishing lunch or tea break only eat bread the whole day!! she stimes will refuse bfast. now in N1, teachers v fierce! i like, cos everything finish hahaah.. pete & i very pleased.. teachers in her class told me, they love them but dun show.. PG teachers more lenient :p now she eats well in sch, come home dun really eat alot dinner i also not so stressed.

star
chloe sod sod one..stimes wants peas n long beans stimes can tell me dun want this dun want that, i will tell her sternly everything also must eat if its in your bowl :p i very fierce n demanding when comes to proper meals, of cos i give her treats on wkends like biscuits, gummy n porky sticks.
 
belle
ye also lidat
damn chao kuan
then she will insist on scooping the forbidden food out of her bowl and into her daddy's
i insist the food stays there, just dun eat it if she doesnt want
 
mejo
i m also scouting maid from best home but hougang branch le..

SQ
hanor stimes i tell chloe, dun eat? nvm.. no prob. then i pretend to talk to papa, papa later we share that mango ok? children who dun finish their meals dun get to eat ..then she will reply: i dun want... wah yaya le someone hehehe
 
Back to my maid issue, today she did something again made me wanna tell her off in public but I control myself, this is nothing compare if she hurt my kids/mum. Nowadays she look like the mam rather then me.

Me and hb quarrel last night after my posts, he show me the face as I’m picking trouble and giving him hard time. Think I should stop “convince” him as it will only sour my relationship with him. He will never change his mind as me keep thinking is me and my mum got problem, he is too protective against the maid.

I decide to stay silent and be detective, my cam and view cam are on stand-by now. Wish me luck to catch her in action.
 
HJ
wat did your maid do this time? haiz not healthy to quarrel over maid la.. if u really want to use the cam to catch her, still got some danger lurking somewhere le.. like u go bath etc..your mum there to look out for u? anyway good luck ya.
 
Yvonne,
I already shortlisted the ccc to send Elisha to, hb promised to send her this year but now coz got maid he wanna postpone to next year.

I told him it is better and I rather to spent the money to send Elisha to school as she can learn to speak/express herself better, but he is too protective, he afraid his bao bei kana bully or injured in school bus/school.

SQ,
Dun be surprise he will choose to cheer an outsider, at this point he is thinking my mum is picking on her. Until I can show him the solid prove. You won’t believe how much he can care abt a stranger.

Mist,
I ask my mum not to talk to my maid abt my family issues before she come, also not to tell her too much thing like where we from and what my hb doing.

Bunnie/QQ
I ask hb to stay at home to monitor the maid himself since he dun believe me, he dun want to answer me.

Joelle,
I also doubt on this point if my maid really hurt her why never hear Elisha cry, but my mum reminded me that Elisha dun cry when her finger got giap by the gate and turn blue black, also she din cry when she fell from sofa.

Wah AAA,
You maid issue sound chim.
Which agent you engage?

Mejo,
You maid really solid, can I send mine for her to train?

Astro:
Hi5, we have a same character hb and also same pattern mum. But lucky u dun have a poor maid like mine.
 
belle,
thanks, quite small case dun want to bored mummies here.
We dun leave the kids to her anymore, now my mum and me like passing batten, we take turns to stay in living room to take care the kids.
 
EC: i think ur hubby just doesn't want trouble.

if he dun wan elisha to go CC so she can stay at home, he not heartpain to see Elisha's blisters?

since he insist the maid is more important, then tell him he will have to bear full responsibility if anything happens to her and C. Afterall, cannot be u or ur mum abuse the kids just to make a point rt?

is the blister still v ob? if want, go and ask the doc if can make police report or not. he want proof, give it to him.
 
HJ
i can only say ur hubby too protective..

AAA
with the new year, i hope u hv better luck. take care of urself too.. change agent best. my SIL got her #3 choice phil maid, she turns out to be good. but my BIL too yim chim. pick on this pick on that. sian.. i also pity her..
 
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thanks! for the tights
managed to dig out your account number though you too paisei to give me
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To Account POSB Savings
193-15434-4 Starfruit
Amount S$8.00
Transaction Reference 2679667173
 
morning!

so not used without my hp... sent to repair...
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hj,
hey, den tell him, now ur maid is abusing her... sent to sch better...
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btw, yesterday i accidentally burn sam tougue.. the matal spoon too hot while the porridge is cold already... so hor, HJ... i suspect she also like tt accidentally ? anyway, sam tougue have the same cut at the tip.. it nv swell la... cos i give her water quickly... lol! she still can laugh after tt...
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lucky is tougue, it heal quite fast. so is the blister at the side of elisha mouth heal?
 
mummies
in office now...
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autum
cant work in home. need to search for a lot of files which are kept in my pc.

well, at least disney spree keeps me happy.

Disney spree
i suspect we are hitting quota or already hit quota..so no more order at this moment :p
 
SQ
feeling better but no heart to work. :p
my mum nag, told me next time dun complain to her i back pain or watever. see she said the wrong thing again. i told her its not as if Im so desperate to go back to work, i have no choice, she should said those things to upset me further.
 
pink
to the older generation, work can always wait. at least tt's wat it's like during their time. my mum always nag at me to go for tea breaks at work. to her, everyone shd take a break for milo n biscuits at 3pm
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SQ
well well. guess this is their way of showing concern. she even plan my meals, help me to buy food to store, think about wat to cook for me since my confinement meals will end today, have to appreciate it.

by the way, can we drink DOM if we are giving breastmilk? saw my MIL open a bottle, i thought its for me, hahhaa its for herself :p
 
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