Pink,
yah, i had coconut drink liao... once only lah.. coconut jelly was becos i cook on sunday... hehehe...
Kelley,
hmmmm, if u need MIL to help then no choice bah, unless u are bring your gal to school everyday yourself. For the 1st 2 months, I bring my boy to and fro from CC myself. I dun want MIL to bring, cos i know she will say this and that. Or things like X cry and cry very chiam and will persuade us not to let X go CC... so I chose to suffer abit for 2 mths, until X is okay then let MIL fetch him.
Bunnie/AAA,
yah, i also think my maid very smart. Think she research alot leh. she can still show the Hello card is the cheapest rate to call philippines. Anyway, since she wanna call hm every weekend w her own $$$, i let her be. As long as not i pay lah.
But HP is no no for me lah, i put it very clearly to her. That is my condition for engaging her, if she feels unfair, she's free to go and i've already informed her agency. I state my stand clearly, purpose want her to know tt I dun mind her going even i'm due for delivery next mth.
I know my agency will scold her if they talk to her, then the situation will be very ugly. That's y i gave her the option to speak to me or the agent. She's smart, she dun want to speak to agent cos she will be scolded. Then i told her very strictly, she has to drop the idea of having hp. If she still hangs on to this idea, I will go to her agent.
Then my mil best, she still can tell me better dun scold maid or do anything cos they would do us harm. I told my mil, i am the employer. i hv my conditions stated clearly, if she's not happy, she can go, I won't let myself be threaten by such things one....
sometime i'm very irritated by my MIL, when i discussed things w my hubby hor, she suddenly add in her opinions one leh. wow, i super buay song loh. Jus like tt day, i was discussing whether to let X participate in some music class provided by his CC, my MIL suddenly chips in "dun need lah, X always sick what!" wow, i almost rolled my eyes.
Then got another time, we discussed abt pri sch, my MIL also suddenly chip in "go to the pri sch next to your blk lah, no need to take sch bus!"
aiyo, i tell u hor, i super buay tahan loh... argh!!! sorry huh, jus my grumble on the sideline... ;p