QQ,
if it's my mil, i will tell her, is this e SIL's opinion, if yes, then better ask the SIL to talk to u, so that u know what kind of toys she wants the baby to play. if no, better not anyhow give, cos tian plays w the toys and may need many cleaning before giving to the baby?? SIL may not like leh....
Autum,
Can't leh, me already on half these few days, cos X's childcare got hfmd, and i'm keeping him at home for precaution reason. actually if my dear MIL is around, i dun need to take leave. But hor, she suddenly say wanna go KL on friday and return on Monday, then later extend to tuesday again!!! wah liao, no need to inform us in advance one, me and my hubby frantically apply for half days to take care of X....