(2007/03) March 2007 MTBs
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wiky
Active Member
Talking about discipline and parenting, I felt so bad for Reyes today.
She fought with a classmate over some hairclips. The teachers were "reprimanding" her when I reached and she burst out crying.
I was very puzzled by it cos usually Reyes don't take things that isn't hers so I started to question her.
Me: whose hairclips are these?
Reyes: meimei
Me: no, that's not yours! You took it from where?!!
Reyes: inside my bag, mama put.
I still don't understand so I asked Reyden "who put the hairclips in meimei's bag?" He replied "Jamie". (the gal who Reyes fought with)
One of the teacher heard this and immediately said "oh ya, they were taking things out from their bags this afternoon when going to bath then maybe Jamie put the clips inside Reyes' bag so Reyes thought it's hers."
I shouldn't have doubt her in the 1st place.
She fought with a classmate over some hairclips. The teachers were "reprimanding" her when I reached and she burst out crying.
I was very puzzled by it cos usually Reyes don't take things that isn't hers so I started to question her.
Me: whose hairclips are these?
Reyes: meimei
Me: no, that's not yours! You took it from where?!!
Reyes: inside my bag, mama put.
I still don't understand so I asked Reyden "who put the hairclips in meimei's bag?" He replied "Jamie". (the gal who Reyes fought with)
One of the teacher heard this and immediately said "oh ya, they were taking things out from their bags this afternoon when going to bath then maybe Jamie put the clips inside Reyes' bag so Reyes thought it's hers."
I shouldn't have doubt her in the 1st place.
pax: got pulau semakau.. i think they added that in.. hey i am hosting one of the trip leh.. u saw the one form my agency? i checked with my boss.. no need to take leave.. it will be credited as my training hrs.. but i think diff agency diff leh. i wanted the check jawa one.. but that one full liao. my colleague going to T3. U wanna come to the one organised by my agency.. its a very interesting workshop, u will enjoy.
Astro,
i dun have cable tv leh.
hey ladies, just to ask.. do you and your hb take turns to be disciplinarian? or just u, or just your hb? I told my colleague i am both the good/bad cop and she says that's not good.. she says I will confuse EJ. should be one parent good cop, one parent bad cop.
How?
i dun have cable tv leh.
hey ladies, just to ask.. do you and your hb take turns to be disciplinarian? or just u, or just your hb? I told my colleague i am both the good/bad cop and she says that's not good.. she says I will confuse EJ. should be one parent good cop, one parent bad cop.
How?
paxeng
Active Member
star
i'll ask my HR then.
it would be quite fun to go pulau semakau or chek jawa.
which trip r u hosting? ur agency one right? abt film censorship etc.
irin
it's ok to question. u jus wan to know bcos u also dun wan Reyes to be reprimanded for no reason. at least the teacher know now. it's not doubting her, u jus wan to know the truth.
i'll ask my HR then.
it would be quite fun to go pulau semakau or chek jawa.
irin
it's ok to question. u jus wan to know bcos u also dun wan Reyes to be reprimanded for no reason. at least the teacher know now. it's not doubting her, u jus wan to know the truth.
paxeng
Active Member
irin
u may be surprised. perhaps Reyden really saw. our kids surprise us at times. sometimes Jo is able to tell me things M do in school etc. u nvr know.
can u put some clips in Reye's bag tmr? or tell her that u'll bring her to buy clips? our kids can rmbr quite well, do talk to her abt the clips.
u may be surprised. perhaps Reyden really saw. our kids surprise us at times. sometimes Jo is able to tell me things M do in school etc. u nvr know.
can u put some clips in Reye's bag tmr? or tell her that u'll bring her to buy clips? our kids can rmbr quite well, do talk to her abt the clips.
Autum-I am the good cop, my HB is the bad cop. although when my boy do wrong thing, I still scold him but I think its more of 'reasoning' with him then scolding him lo. my HB do discipline him though. So he will only 'yang orh' with me. haha.
yvonne-my #1 had bron during 4-5mths old and was hospitalized for around a week, that time doc even wanna put him on drip but I insisted NO. Now thinking back quite ironic when #2 is subjected to so much poking. Anyway hope Sam is fine yeah.. is she on any medication now?? Most imptly u must take care urself first hor.
yvonne-my #1 had bron during 4-5mths old and was hospitalized for around a week, that time doc even wanna put him on drip but I insisted NO. Now thinking back quite ironic when #2 is subjected to so much poking. Anyway hope Sam is fine yeah.. is she on any medication now?? Most imptly u must take care urself first hor.
Yvonne,
All along Esther is seen by gp at woodslands. We started Dylan with gp initially same as Esther. After advised by pax, i tried Pax's pd. Seen the difference between gp and pd. GP might give abit strong med to kids compare to pd. Pd tried to give less strong med and antibiotics.
Go to see Dr Ong if you can.
All along Esther is seen by gp at woodslands. We started Dylan with gp initially same as Esther. After advised by pax, i tried Pax's pd. Seen the difference between gp and pd. GP might give abit strong med to kids compare to pd. Pd tried to give less strong med and antibiotics.
Go to see Dr Ong if you can.
star,
I'm also looking for a dentist for YT leh. Haha, actually I want to scare YT with a dentist visit cuz she always don't want to brush her teeth properly so I want to threaten her with a dentist visit everytime she refused to brush properly. I'm wicked. Please review this dentist that you are bringing Rae to!
I think Rae don't have much contact with other kids other than a small amount of time in GUG so she doesn't know how to react to others. Last time YT also like that. People take her things and she just sha sha follow them around. But after a while she changed when my SIL's boys lived with us for a few months. She started defending her things. In fact, she recognise that one of the boys won't snatch while the other will and she will be very wary of the cousin that like to snatch her toys. They are coming again in June, chaos coming!
I'm also looking for a dentist for YT leh. Haha, actually I want to scare YT with a dentist visit cuz she always don't want to brush her teeth properly so I want to threaten her with a dentist visit everytime she refused to brush properly. I'm wicked. Please review this dentist that you are bringing Rae to!
I think Rae don't have much contact with other kids other than a small amount of time in GUG so she doesn't know how to react to others. Last time YT also like that. People take her things and she just sha sha follow them around. But after a while she changed when my SIL's boys lived with us for a few months. She started defending her things. In fact, she recognise that one of the boys won't snatch while the other will and she will be very wary of the cousin that like to snatch her toys. They are coming again in June, chaos coming!
nanabear911
Active Member
morning mummies.. very busy for me.. and am sooooooooooo happy!! my mummy is back!!! yeah!! and am very surprised that my ger is so sticky to her!! I was worried that becos 1/2 yr never see her.. she will u know cry and so on becos she dun recongise or wat.. but! yes.. am surprised!
nanabear911
Active Member
astro : chopper!?!?!?!?!! HELLO!!!!! Must be careful lor!!!!! OMG!
Tiff also .. always like to go drawer pretend to take scissors.. but open already dun dare to take becos i always scold her cannot take.. hahaha
Tiff also .. always like to go drawer pretend to take scissors.. but open already dun dare to take becos i always scold her cannot take.. hahaha
nanabear911
Active Member
kaexin : creative leh u all.. a plan cake can make so nice wor..
nanabear911
Active Member
kaexin : did u receive my friend's transfer to ur account??
I will do mine tonite
I will do mine tonite
lurvecakes
New Member
hg, enne , ok. Hmm, she is now on antibiotics will be getting a purifier. Guess we will go all out to buy all things to make the air very clean. Now we never on air con, sam coughing non stop. We still cracking our brains on how to satisfy both bel and sam. Bel cannot don on air con, her eczema will come. Sam cannot sleep in air con room.
Qq, if u happen to see this, i got some question to ask u. Me and nick have decided to get the air purifier u have at home. If we use this air purifier, and if on air con, will it defeat the purpose of using air purifier? And which shop did u get it from? We cant find in most big electronic stores. Courts, best, harvey norman. All don have this. They know about this brand, but they keep telling me to go bigger stores.
Qq, if u happen to see this, i got some question to ask u. Me and nick have decided to get the air purifier u have at home. If we use this air purifier, and if on air con, will it defeat the purpose of using air purifier? And which shop did u get it from? We cant find in most big electronic stores. Courts, best, harvey norman. All don have this. They know about this brand, but they keep telling me to go bigger stores.
lurvecakes
New Member
autum, my room not enough space. We also wan to buy a fan just for her, also the cable not long enough. Lol. Many prob hor!
hmm, we getting honey well. It is not very bulky. Still acceptable. It cost 700+ . Now not the money issue already, cos we already spend many hundreds on medical bills. We just hope all this spend, they out grow this, save our prob in future. So, give me more recommendation!
yvonne ah,
err, an electrical fan cost like $30+.. why not try the electrical fan first? if all Bel needs is to cool down, then try to get a small fan just to blow at her? then u can don't turn on aircon so Sam is safe. Then if still cannot, then buy the purifier? A purifier, even if small, also take up space mah.. so a small fan maybe it's about the same?
Just my personal view la. Cos $700+ is a lot of money le.
err, an electrical fan cost like $30+.. why not try the electrical fan first? if all Bel needs is to cool down, then try to get a small fan just to blow at her? then u can don't turn on aircon so Sam is safe. Then if still cannot, then buy the purifier? A purifier, even if small, also take up space mah.. so a small fan maybe it's about the same?
Just my personal view la. Cos $700+ is a lot of money le.
lurvecakes
New Member
autum,
my room already got a standing fan... how ah? i take a photo of my room, u see ok...
my room already got a standing fan... how ah? i take a photo of my room, u see ok...
heavengift
Member
Kaexin - u are good!..recycle
Moon - Congrats. Will be waiting for Jaylia's good news.
Enne - Ha...u are right! The girl names are ending with 'ia.' Btw, pai seh...didnt manage to find any suitable cloth for little L.
Huingee / pax - I also brought Delia to Dr Ong. The first time, I see her...I thought she is the cleaner. She doesnt dress like a doc and she was doing registration at the counter. I feel that she is a good PD, she bothers to explain in detail and willing to answer my queries.
nana - u have any idea or happen to know when the landed property/condo will be launched at Jurong East (have or not, btw?) or not?
Moon - Congrats. Will be waiting for Jaylia's good news.
Enne - Ha...u are right! The girl names are ending with 'ia.' Btw, pai seh...didnt manage to find any suitable cloth for little L.
Huingee / pax - I also brought Delia to Dr Ong. The first time, I see her...I thought she is the cleaner. She doesnt dress like a doc and she was doing registration at the counter. I feel that she is a good PD, she bothers to explain in detail and willing to answer my queries.
nana - u have any idea or happen to know when the landed property/condo will be launched at Jurong East (have or not, btw?) or not?
tay,
Haha, my fren, my nanny also thot Dr Ong is a cleaner. Cos she really dun dress like a Dr. But she is good.
Yvonne,
Good to invest in air purifer. Your fan must clean often too, or else lots of dust too. For me, i on aircon. As long as the temp not too low will be ok. I used to keep the aircon at 26degc and sometimes plus fan.
Cos dylan will fuss in the mid of the night as he cannot stand hot.
Hai...., also see when is the fastest time to get a place of your own.
Haha, my fren, my nanny also thot Dr Ong is a cleaner. Cos she really dun dress like a Dr. But she is good.
Yvonne,
Good to invest in air purifer. Your fan must clean often too, or else lots of dust too. For me, i on aircon. As long as the temp not too low will be ok. I used to keep the aircon at 26degc and sometimes plus fan.
Cos dylan will fuss in the mid of the night as he cannot stand hot.
Hai...., also see when is the fastest time to get a place of your own.
