yo, me back.
i am very positive at the moment. LA is good, and his description is almost 90% the same as PT. but totally diff view than PL.
He was quite shock to hear that termination is a choice because the baby is very healthy and happie inside.
however, he agree that if i really go into serious bleeding, can always go to AnE at kk. he drafted me a letter for tat. i asked him so many questions today, he tried to answered me all of them. very nice. and he had various experiences in this kind of bleeding. his experience told him that if the bb can reach this stage, 13 weeks, very high chance it will be able to survive till the end. if really placenta detach later? we also cannot do anything. but unlikely detach all until bb cannot survive. he said

k, lets see who is right few weeks later!!
as whether i will die in shock, should not be a big problem unless serious bleeding, then admit immediately. in general, the blood inside my body will build up itself, iron rich food is important to help. besides going to hospital, just rest in bed. or if want to rest in bed in hospital, can go kk and rest for 1 month, and we should see some improvement after 1-2 months.
miracles dun happen overnight and the clots are so much, it wont be kicked out overnight too. so we need time. give it 1-2 months, we will see the light.
somemore, bb is now on the top of the clot, if everything come out slowly, bit by bit, by 5th month i wil have a perfect bb inside my tummy without clots.
so i think i can eat more to make bb bigger, then push out clots bit by bit. if not, it will be absorbed by the body.
sometimes, these clots might liquified and flow out as blood, so no need to be alarmed.
kelley, will fly u aeroplane for april's date. i will be resting in bed still.