oooh kiddo
now i understand the situation better...since u already asked your mum to quit, unfair to let your in laws to take care now, and im sure u pay your mum some money to help out and to cover her income loss, so the arrangement will be a bit haywire.
i also find tat when bb was young, these old pple will avoid taking care of bb but when our kid start to grow up, respond and become more fun, then they start to WANT to be CLOSE to our kid...
my mum help me with Leia from birth, no change..
angel
funny rite..the internal battle..siao siao