(2007/03) March 2007 MTBs
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RR
how come your mum so weird de? why she scold you when u complain abt your MIL?
Potluck on 1st May
venue: Function Room @Blk 39D The Infiniti @West Coast Park (Hong Leong Garden)
day: sat
time: 5 to 10pm
Activity: Swim, Ride Bike/Scooter & Eat
Map: http://www.streetdb.com/singapore-street-directory-BUILDING-p127715-THE-INFINITI.htm
Note: Tell the Guard you are attending party at Function Room
Attendees:
1. Kaexin
2. RR (Braised chicken wings with mushroom)
3. Nana (curry chicken)
4. Mist
5. joelle
6. Mejo
7. Kelley
8. pinkpink - Fried Rice
P)
9. Huingee
10. Astro (as usual, i order my pizza hor.. hahah chope first)
11. Giolyn (calamari)
Directions:
If you are travelling towards AYE (Tuas),
> Keep left at Exit 11 & Go Straight towards West Coast Way.
(XXX Please DO NOT turn left into roundabout towards Clementi Ave 6)
> Turn into West Coast Way
> Look out for West Coast Park (on the right)
> Drive all the way in
If you are travelling towards AYE (City),
> Turn left at Exit 11 towards Clementi Ave 6
> Make a U-Turn. Quickly keep right to AYE (Tuas)
> After roundabout, turn into West Coast Way
> Look out for West Coast Park (on the right)
> Drive all the way in
Note: If you are taking cab, tell cab uncle you are going to HONG LEONG GARDEN and search for West Coast Park when you reach. DUN tell him WEST COAST PARK if not he will drive you to the real WEST COAST PARK
sorry for the lor-sohness.
how come your mum so weird de? why she scold you when u complain abt your MIL?
Potluck on 1st May
venue: Function Room @Blk 39D The Infiniti @West Coast Park (Hong Leong Garden)
day: sat
time: 5 to 10pm
Activity: Swim, Ride Bike/Scooter & Eat
Map: http://www.streetdb.com/singapore-street-directory-BUILDING-p127715-THE-INFINITI.htm
Note: Tell the Guard you are attending party at Function Room
Attendees:
1. Kaexin
2. RR (Braised chicken wings with mushroom)
3. Nana (curry chicken)
4. Mist
5. joelle
6. Mejo
7. Kelley
8. pinkpink - Fried Rice
P) 9. Huingee
10. Astro (as usual, i order my pizza hor.. hahah chope first)
11. Giolyn (calamari)
Directions:
If you are travelling towards AYE (Tuas),
> Keep left at Exit 11 & Go Straight towards West Coast Way.
(XXX Please DO NOT turn left into roundabout towards Clementi Ave 6)
> Turn into West Coast Way
> Look out for West Coast Park (on the right)
> Drive all the way in
If you are travelling towards AYE (City),
> Turn left at Exit 11 towards Clementi Ave 6
> Make a U-Turn. Quickly keep right to AYE (Tuas)
> After roundabout, turn into West Coast Way
> Look out for West Coast Park (on the right)
> Drive all the way in
Note: If you are taking cab, tell cab uncle you are going to HONG LEONG GARDEN and search for West Coast Park when you reach. DUN tell him WEST COAST PARK if not he will drive you to the real WEST COAST PARK
sorry for the lor-sohness.
lurvecakes
New Member
autum, mist,
yes. I cook for the children onli. Lol! Left overs will add on to our tinkat . Everyday i just need to cook one dish meal. This way wont hurt my thumb ma. Alot of washing to do if i cook normally. Also nick don like my cooking la. So bland, how to eat. He like variety, so tinkat is the best for him.
Now i still learning to cook la, he will eat also if got leftovers, sometime he will say nice, sometime he say no taste, or taste veri wierd. He always many comment. So i give up. Eat tinkat no comment. Lol!
yes. I cook for the children onli. Lol! Left overs will add on to our tinkat . Everyday i just need to cook one dish meal. This way wont hurt my thumb ma. Alot of washing to do if i cook normally. Also nick don like my cooking la. So bland, how to eat. He like variety, so tinkat is the best for him.
Now i still learning to cook la, he will eat also if got leftovers, sometime he will say nice, sometime he say no taste, or taste veri wierd. He always many comment. So i give up. Eat tinkat no comment. Lol!
ok i amended the books delivery, will pass all the 1st may gathering mummies' books to kaexin this sunday so she can pass it on at the gathering. Let me know if there are any changes in the bus routes.
ABC Book Bus arrangement:
QQ
- SQ
kaexin (1st may gathering mummies)
- RR
- edde
- Autum
- ecmom?
- Pink> Pax
- nana
- Joelle
- Astro
- Huignee
- germaine
Direct at my place
- ecmom - direct at my place
- Shannie ?
ash - at TBP?
Remaining mummies, let me know how to arrange for you
- CK
- Magsmum
- Juni
- katherine lee
- ladysol
- enne
enne: pending your payment for the ABC book $10 each. cheers
astro: ok can pay me cash, but i am not sure how to meet u leh.
ecmom (HJ): yes can pay me cash when u collect.
ABC Book Bus arrangement:
- SQ
kaexin (1st may gathering mummies)
- RR
- edde
- Autum
- ecmom?
- Pink> Pax
- nana
- Joelle
- Astro
- Huignee
- germaine
Direct at my place
- ecmom - direct at my place
- Shannie ?
ash - at TBP?
Remaining mummies, let me know how to arrange for you
- CK
- Magsmum
- Juni
- katherine lee
- ladysol
- enne
enne: pending your payment for the ABC book $10 each. cheers
astro: ok can pay me cash, but i am not sure how to meet u leh.
ecmom (HJ): yes can pay me cash when u collect.
pink. roger.
i think we will try tingkat for 1 month nia. play play, taking a break for jay.
by the way he enjoyed the quizes posted by star yesterday. but he said, nonsense la, those ppl who come out with these questions are really bian4 tai4 . haha!
RR, same here. if i complain about mil, my mum will say, your mil very neng2 gan4 already, very good. groomed 4 graduates from the family, success rate 100%. etc etc, can cook well, can take care of kids. knowledgeable about herbs, etc.
u see me? (refering to my own mum herself), anything also half pail of water, she said i should learn from my mil.
so, i asked my mum: so who is more neng2 gan4? your daughter me or your qing1 jia1 (my mil).
my mum: of course my dotter la, she work and also take care of kid herself. steady, I CANNOT DO THAT too. qing1 jia1 no need to work mah, nowadys not easy to be a working mum.
(actually, full time mum at home also siong la, just that i never elaborate to my mum. haha!)
me: (am4 chio3). haha!!
and my mum always says:
家有一老，如有一宝。(including herself)
i think we will try tingkat for 1 month nia. play play, taking a break for jay.
by the way he enjoyed the quizes posted by star yesterday. but he said, nonsense la, those ppl who come out with these questions are really bian4 tai4 . haha!
RR, same here. if i complain about mil, my mum will say, your mil very neng2 gan4 already, very good. groomed 4 graduates from the family, success rate 100%. etc etc, can cook well, can take care of kids. knowledgeable about herbs, etc.
u see me? (refering to my own mum herself), anything also half pail of water, she said i should learn from my mil.
so, i asked my mum: so who is more neng2 gan4? your daughter me or your qing1 jia1 (my mil).
my mum: of course my dotter la, she work and also take care of kid herself. steady, I CANNOT DO THAT too. qing1 jia1 no need to work mah, nowadys not easy to be a working mum.
(actually, full time mum at home also siong la, just that i never elaborate to my mum. haha!)
me: (am4 chio3). haha!!
and my mum always says:
家有一老，如有一宝。(including herself)
Actually, i quite like pink's mum. cause i also hope my mum will stand at my side. haha!!!
regarldness of wat, cause the feeling is great.
pink, no worry, your mum will be fine de. just bring her for a good meal. i think she just wan to have someone at her side for her to grumble.
she and your mil buey ngam.
regarldness of wat, cause the feeling is great.
pink, no worry, your mum will be fine de. just bring her for a good meal. i think she just wan to have someone at her side for her to grumble.
she and your mil buey ngam.
wiky
Active Member
QQ,
the problem is my mum is definitely more "neng gan" than my MIL (even my MIL also says so) so I really don't see what I should respect my MIL for. *so bad ...*
I also like pink's mum, nice to know your own mum is standing on your side. That time I didn't have anyone to complain to during confinement, almost went mad.
the problem is my mum is definitely more "neng gan" than my MIL (even my MIL also says so) so I really don't see what I should respect my MIL for. *so bad ...*
I also like pink's mum, nice to know your own mum is standing on your side. That time I didn't have anyone to complain to during confinement, almost went mad.
QQ
i feel bad lah but dun know how to break the ice. think she'll be ok when i see her later ba. both of us are librians, will forget easily.
she sayang me, feels that my mil didnt help me much. and my mil's tone can be a bit domineering at times, so my mum feels that she doesnt respect her. aiya too many women under the same roof, difficult, i also feel caught in-between at times.
btw there's 1 night my mil complained head very pain cannot sleep, she invited a doc from SGH to our home to conduct some testing, wires all over her. she told me she check her kidney lah, her lungs on regularly basis, see specialist, head of the department.
SQ
i just came back from Swanston, the shop at people's park.
the 1000ml system 2 shampoo is $52
the 1000ml system 2 conditioner is $62
seen lots of stuff, i also dun know whether they are cheaper than outside..but a lot of customers so i assume should be cheap.
i feel bad lah but dun know how to break the ice.
think she'll be ok when i see her later ba. both of us are librians, will forget easily. she sayang me, feels that my mil didnt help me much. and my mil's tone can be a bit domineering at times, so my mum feels that she doesnt respect her. aiya too many women under the same roof, difficult, i also feel caught in-between at times.
btw there's 1 night my mil complained head very pain cannot sleep, she invited a doc from SGH to our home to conduct some testing, wires all over her. she told me she check her kidney lah, her lungs on regularly basis, see specialist, head of the department.
SQ
i just came back from Swanston, the shop at people's park.
the 1000ml system 2 shampoo is $52
the 1000ml system 2 conditioner is $62
seen lots of stuff, i also dun know whether they are cheaper than outside..but a lot of customers so i assume should be cheap.
wiky
Active Member
Pinkpink,
my mum won't be the real scold type but she won't "gossip" with me about my mil, will just cut me off somewhere or don't give comments de. Sian ...
I think I'll side with Reyes next time too. Raise my gal till so big, treat her like precious then let the MIL bully??? I won't give face. haha!!
my mum won't be the real scold type but she won't "gossip" with me about my mil, will just cut me off somewhere or don't give comments de. Sian ...
I think I'll side with Reyes next time too. Raise my gal till so big, treat her like precious then let the MIL bully??? I won't give face. haha!!
Pink,
my mil didn say anything after my hubby talk to her. she just keep quiet lah, anyway we just continue to current plan lah. If mil wanna come and help when she's bored, then bonus point. if dun want, just remain as it is.
actually i feel lah, your mum "heart pain" for u lah, cos your MIL didn consider for you, very different from how she treat u. So i feel that dun scold yr mum lah, in case she feels hurt loh.
my mil didn say anything after my hubby talk to her. she just keep quiet lah, anyway we just continue to current plan lah. If mil wanna come and help when she's bored, then bonus point. if dun want, just remain as it is.
actually i feel lah, your mum "heart pain" for u lah, cos your MIL didn consider for you, very different from how she treat u. So i feel that dun scold yr mum lah, in case she feels hurt loh.
nanabear911
Active Member
wanted to catch up on archieves.. cant.. am only eating my lunch now.. am angry!
pink : yes.. swansons is generally cheaper den outside...
my mum will also say.. dun say ur MIL la.. just be patient.. be patient.. sigh.. my sister also kanna from her MIL.. my mum also say.. tolerate.. my mum is those very peaceful kind.. dun like to quarrel with people one.. hahaha!
pink : yes.. swansons is generally cheaper den outside...
my mum will also say.. dun say ur MIL la.. just be patient.. be patient.. sigh.. my sister also kanna from her MIL.. my mum also say.. tolerate.. my mum is those very peaceful kind.. dun like to quarrel with people one.. hahaha!
RR, dun play play. later reyden bring someone back home who can TACKLE u. haha!! u will be mil yourself also, cannot run away one.
pink, sure no problem one. ur mum dotes on u for sure. when u need help she always jump and appear before u.
my mum ask me to jiak ka ki. she said she has the heart but no energy to come over. she said my mil can do a better job.
i agree many woman under one roof can be a big headache. imagine i have MAID, mil, sil, my cousin (prob no problem), my ah tian tian. a handful of WOMEN at home. haha!
my mum ask me to ren3. she said old ppl are like that de and i should be able to handle since i so neng2 gan4.
haha!!!
RR, as it my mil is more neng gan, my mum is the smart one we feel. cause she is kind of 大智nuo愚。
pink, sure no problem one. ur mum dotes on u for sure. when u need help she always jump and appear before u.
my mum ask me to jiak ka ki. she said she has the heart but no energy to come over. she said my mil can do a better job.
i agree many woman under one roof can be a big headache. imagine i have MAID, mil, sil, my cousin (prob no problem), my ah tian tian. a handful of WOMEN at home. haha!
my mum ask me to ren3. she said old ppl are like that de and i should be able to handle since i so neng2 gan4.
haha!!!
RR, as it my mil is more neng gan, my mum is the smart one we feel. cause she is kind of 大智nuo愚。
pink, actually dun say about your mum, i also kind of buey tahan your mil. *hee*
a bit extreme and domineering one. seems like even if nobody is in the wrong, but she is always the right one.
nevermind, that is my biased statement after knowing u for few years. haha!!
who cares la, just treat your mum better than her, make her jealous.
a bit extreme and domineering one. seems like even if nobody is in the wrong, but she is always the right one.
nevermind, that is my biased statement after knowing u for few years. haha!!
who cares la, just treat your mum better than her, make her jealous.
nanabear911
Active Member
QQ : wah! ur mum use ji jiang fa.. say u neng kan.. den u will make sure u wont xia suay urself.. so u will make sure u can handle.. hahaha!
pink, FYI.
my fil and my dad were GOOD frens, wanna go also said will find each others as companion. something like that. they meet up more often than me meeting my parents.
then my mil and my mum also good fren lor but not as good as the papas.
so my mum is the clever one, though she looks dumb dumb de. always kena bullied but she is ok to be bullied that type.
the cheng yu means, looks dumb but actually very smart.
she said i neng gan4 already and i cannot make her loose face. i must be able to handle my mil then. cannot loose face. haha! but my mil is quite capable also in general, except her bad mouth. if i am deaf, i think the world will be very nice. haha! so i act deaf la.
my fil and my dad were GOOD frens, wanna go also said will find each others as companion. something like that. they meet up more often than me meeting my parents.
then my mil and my mum also good fren lor but not as good as the papas.
so my mum is the clever one, though she looks dumb dumb de. always kena bullied but she is ok to be bullied that type.
the cheng yu means, looks dumb but actually very smart.
she said i neng gan4 already and i cannot make her loose face. i must be able to handle my mil then. cannot loose face. haha! but my mil is quite capable also in general, except her bad mouth. if i am deaf, i think the world will be very nice. haha! so i act deaf la.
QQ
your fil and dad were good frens! so interesting? you and jay were not engaged at birth rite? wats the cheng yu for this? Zhi3 Fu4 wei2 hun1?
my MIL is smart if not how to run the shop herself? my mum is hardworking. my mum dislikes my mil from the very first day they met bcos my mil first words to her were " everything also no need la, just keep it simple". very impolite.
autum
if you are the bochap type, also try not to stay with EJ..kekeke
your fil and dad were good frens! so interesting? you and jay were not engaged at birth rite? wats the cheng yu for this? Zhi3 Fu4 wei2 hun1?
my MIL is smart if not how to run the shop herself? my mum is hardworking. my mum dislikes my mil from the very first day they met bcos my mil first words to her were " everything also no need la, just keep it simple". very impolite.
autum
if you are the bochap type, also try not to stay with EJ..kekeke
Pink
you place is really very the IN manz. We drove to Capella and ask the security. They said there is a lot of condo inside so should be one of them. Then we drove to Botannia thinking it is the last condo and asked the security there. End up we looked so stupid cos it is just next one. hahaha...
you place is really very the IN manz. We drove to Capella and ask the security. They said there is a lot of condo inside so should be one of them. Then we drove to Botannia thinking it is the last condo and asked the security there. End up we looked so stupid cos it is just next one. hahaha...
Pink,
i can understand your mum, she feels tt yr mil dun think highly of u when u marry to mr tan. heart pain for u... my mum sometimes also heart pain, she forever feels tt i deserve better.. hahaha.. all mums always think their child deserve better spouse! anyway, i always tell my mum, it's my life, I decide for myself. That's y when i really kena from my mil this time, i dun wanna go ask my mum for help, she heart pain then she will grumble n scold my hubby. I also dun want my hubby to look bad when it's not his fault lah.
QQ,
Your mum is the clever one, compliment so that u can handle your mil.. "neng zen duo lao"
i can understand your mum, she feels tt yr mil dun think highly of u when u marry to mr tan. heart pain for u... my mum sometimes also heart pain, she forever feels tt i deserve better.. hahaha.. all mums always think their child deserve better spouse! anyway, i always tell my mum, it's my life, I decide for myself. That's y when i really kena from my mil this time, i dun wanna go ask my mum for help, she heart pain then she will grumble n scold my hubby. I also dun want my hubby to look bad when it's not his fault lah.
QQ,
Your mum is the clever one, compliment so that u can handle your mil.. "neng zen duo lao"
i m back!
mother n mil talk?
my mil treats me very well.but sil's mother can bully mil till she cry n confide w me type. i m always wishing my own mum will be with me at this stage.. but too bad my mum's life not good pass away so young. my dad will stimes say we 3 sisters cant compare to my mum.
yday saw a doc on channel 8 or U , but watch only half way.. will u mummies mind ur own dotter marry a guy old enuff to be her dad? the girl is like gave up studies during 19 yrs to be a guy in his late 30s... i wonder if i m in her shoes how would i react.
mother n mil talk?
my mil treats me very well.but sil's mother can bully mil till she cry n confide w me type. i m always wishing my own mum will be with me at this stage.. but too bad my mum's life not good pass away so young. my dad will stimes say we 3 sisters cant compare to my mum.
yday saw a doc on channel 8 or U , but watch only half way.. will u mummies mind ur own dotter marry a guy old enuff to be her dad? the girl is like gave up studies during 19 yrs to be a guy in his late 30s... i wonder if i m in her shoes how would i react.
pink/RR; sorry for the confusion.. wat i mean is that usually the opposite will come true.. those of us who say we will be bo chup may turn out to be terror MIL in future, those of us who say we will be terror MIL may become super bo chup.
For me, i think i may become terror MIL next time..heheh
For me, i think i may become terror MIL next time..heheh
alamak RR, u diff, u will have 1 DIL and 1 Son in Law.. hahah same as u, i think i may be quite hard on rae's hb her future MIL..hahah
belle: i think it depends on what age they know they potential partner. Like my colleague she is a single lady, she is 36 this yr she recently got attached and her BF is a man who is close to 50 yrs old. for this i think its ok. but she dun dare to share with her family so the romance is a secret for now. but if she is 19, i will think its not ok lah. too young and may be irrational.
belle: i think it depends on what age they know they potential partner. Like my colleague she is a single lady, she is 36 this yr she recently got attached and her BF is a man who is close to 50 yrs old. for this i think its ok. but she dun dare to share with her family so the romance is a secret for now. but if she is 19, i will think its not ok lah. too young and may be irrational.
pink
dats for sure for mr tan..enya n leia his xing gan bao bei
RR
ya me too..somemore the guy went burst on his biz sometime le.. i did not manage to finish the show cos chloe disturb.. eventually the gals mum accepted.. both are good ppl.. not that the guy is ah beng type.. the girl also mature.. so i guess all depds on the upbringing n the maturity level of the 2 persons in love.
just now went GWC awhile after MOM.. zara has got many cute n nice clothings .. so tempted to get but told myself to wait till ethan is older.. many sweet stuff for our girls too.
star
got hello kitty tees le... but not cheap 29 bucks
dats for sure for mr tan..enya n leia his xing gan bao bei
RR
ya me too..somemore the guy went burst on his biz sometime le.. i did not manage to finish the show cos chloe disturb.. eventually the gals mum accepted.. both are good ppl.. not that the guy is ah beng type.. the girl also mature.. so i guess all depds on the upbringing n the maturity level of the 2 persons in love.
just now went GWC awhile after MOM.. zara has got many cute n nice clothings .. so tempted to get but told myself to wait till ethan is older.. many sweet stuff for our girls too.
star
got hello kitty tees le... but not cheap 29 bucks
wiky
Active Member
Belle,
if both mature then not so bad. But then if she's rational enough, she won't think of giving up studies for the man bah?
Starfruit,
haha!! So next time we'll come in here and complain about our daughters' MILs instead of our own MILs.
Then Pinkpink can get her mum to join us, wahaha!!
if both mature then not so bad. But then if she's rational enough, she won't think of giving up studies for the man bah?
Starfruit,
haha!! So next time we'll come in here and complain about our daughters' MILs instead of our own MILs.
Then Pinkpink can get her mum to join us, wahaha!!
nanabear911
Active Member
aiyo.. the other day i was just asking my hubby.. eh.. when tiffany grows up and get married.. will u cry?? he said "no leh.. cry for wat?" i said " u can bear to let her go meh?" den he scold me siao...
tats man for me.. hahahA!
tats man for me.. hahahA!
pink, surprisingly, we din know each other when both of us were born.
our dads met only after we have FAMILY meeting (a meal) when we pat tor and closed to get married. my dad liked my fil, and my fil really liked my dad. somehow very click and good.
both of them praised each others and admired each others talents and good points. hard to come by for this kind of relationship.
i was so touched when fil told me that he will looked for my dad in another world, 2 days before he passed away.
we were saying mil burnt a camry for fil, hope they can go swim car river together in that world cause we never burn one for my dad la.
mist, u have two sons.. haha! u will be mil too.
and i also think that i have high expectation for tian's spouse. we feel proud growing them for many years, then cannot let ppl bully mah. haha!!
our dads met only after we have FAMILY meeting (a meal) when we pat tor and closed to get married. my dad liked my fil, and my fil really liked my dad. somehow very click and good.
both of them praised each others and admired each others talents and good points. hard to come by for this kind of relationship.
i was so touched when fil told me that he will looked for my dad in another world, 2 days before he passed away.
we were saying mil burnt a camry for fil, hope they can go swim car river together in that world cause we never burn one for my dad la.
mist, u have two sons.. haha! u will be mil too.
and i also think that i have high expectation for tian's spouse. we feel proud growing them for many years, then cannot let ppl bully mah. haha!!
hahah... next time i also have one DIL and SIL. *faint* sometimes i also wonder: most problem my DIL will be younger than Gwyen, will Gwyen feel funnie to call someone younger than her da sao. hahah.. think too much liao. Or will my SIL be feeling funnie to call Clyde dao ge if he is older than Clyde.