AAA & pink, i thot of telling ah bian off infront of FIL. Kept worrying last ngt that history will repeat cos u noe kids can b playful at times. And if FIL still dun hold his hands then he might fall again. I felt super sim tia mainly bcos one of the bruises is so near to the eyes. I cannot imagine if he hits onto the pavement wif his head if he falls again.
(2007/03) March 2007 MTBs
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nanabear911
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gioyln : next time take paper and write.. or when u tell her.. ask her to take paper / book to write ur instructions..
my this new maid.. she completes all my task.. but the only thing is love to sleep.. sleep n sleep.. but in the afternoon.. after she finish everything.. nothing to do for now.. so let her sleep ok la.. just worried when baby comes.. she cannot sleep liaoz den she go and eat snake
my this new maid.. she completes all my task.. but the only thing is love to sleep.. sleep n sleep.. but in the afternoon.. after she finish everything.. nothing to do for now.. so let her sleep ok la.. just worried when baby comes.. she cannot sleep liaoz den she go and eat snake
nanabear , paisay , interupt
i hv been thru somewhat similar like u .
the reason that was given by my gynae is that , he worries that the baby is too small ( might not be very healthy as cp to bigger babies )
but other than being small , he said can slowly catch up one ....
my bb was SMALL throughout until the last leap . think she gained alot during the last week coz she was overdued . she pop at 3kg . so i worried for very long time. at her detailed scan , she was scanned to hv echogenic bowel , i also didnt go for amnio coz i know i dun wan to do anything to her coz i think by thinking the worse , i am paranoid . i am glad that she turned out to be ok and i dint subjected her to the trauma while she was inside my tummy
dun worry too much ok . like u , i blamed myself for not taking my vitamins and not eating properly when i was in my tri 1 and 2 . but it is really not our fault , some babies are juz small . it is ok .
please be +ve
i hv been thru somewhat similar like u .
the reason that was given by my gynae is that , he worries that the baby is too small ( might not be very healthy as cp to bigger babies )
but other than being small , he said can slowly catch up one ....
my bb was SMALL throughout until the last leap . think she gained alot during the last week coz she was overdued . she pop at 3kg . so i worried for very long time. at her detailed scan , she was scanned to hv echogenic bowel , i also didnt go for amnio coz i know i dun wan to do anything to her coz i think by thinking the worse , i am paranoid . i am glad that she turned out to be ok and i dint subjected her to the trauma while she was inside my tummy
dun worry too much ok . like u , i blamed myself for not taking my vitamins and not eating properly when i was in my tri 1 and 2 . but it is really not our fault , some babies are juz small . it is ok .
AAA
thats scary!
u know wat. rina also make some friends in our neighbourhood. my home is using card/number system. without the card, rina can get out of the house, go down the lift to the pool area, to the carpark lobby but she wont be able to get into the house. BUT, i heard from her that there is a maid who is given the CARD from her employer, which means that this maid can roam around? can even come to my place? bcos Rina can open the door, she just doesnt need to step out? u know wat i mean?
thats scary!
u know wat. rina also make some friends in our neighbourhood. my home is using card/number system. without the card, rina can get out of the house, go down the lift to the pool area, to the carpark lobby but she wont be able to get into the house. BUT, i heard from her that there is a maid who is given the CARD from her employer, which means that this maid can roam around? can even come to my place? bcos Rina can open the door, she just doesnt need to step out? u know wat i mean?
babylovespink2
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BBMar: Is there anyone else who can go fetch ah bian? How abt your MIL?
And hor.. Why doesn't your FIL want to hold onto ah bian's hands? I mean, is this an act of showing he doesn't want to help anymore? If so, then better to ask your MIL to go fetch ah bian instead. It can be very dangerous.
And hor.. Why doesn't your FIL want to hold onto ah bian's hands? I mean, is this an act of showing he doesn't want to help anymore? If so, then better to ask your MIL to go fetch ah bian instead. It can be very dangerous.
Nana
i didnt know u have a new maid!
ya i agree with wat AAA and cai said. what does the gynae expect you to do?
Enya was also considered small at 30+ week, my gynae just asked me to eat more and she was 3.1kg at week 38.
BBMar
u can pretend to mumble in front of Bian. tell him must be careful, cannot knock his eye again, its very serious...keeps emphasising MUST be careful...
i didnt know u have a new maid!
ya i agree with wat AAA and cai said. what does the gynae expect you to do?
Enya was also considered small at 30+ week, my gynae just asked me to eat more and she was 3.1kg at week 38.
BBMar
u can pretend to mumble in front of Bian. tell him must be careful, cannot knock his eye again, its very serious...keeps emphasising MUST be careful...
Giolyn,
Don't expect too high from maid. For paste the wall decal, why ask her to do. If it's me i will do it myself cos what if paste not nice. Then spoil the whole decal?
Sometimes they are forgetful too.
Tonight if you go back she still give you black face then you must tell her off.
Don't expect too high from maid. For paste the wall decal, why ask her to do. If it's me i will do it myself cos what if paste not nice. Then spoil the whole decal?
Sometimes they are forgetful too.
Tonight if you go back she still give you black face then you must tell her off.
babylovespink2
New Member
Pink: Yes very scary. But there's really no way we can prevent this. Maids who do this are taking their chances they don't get caught. My hubby's boss lost expensive stuff - watches, jewelery etc..
The other night I dreamed that my maid invited her friends to our placehen we were not around. It's really strange.
The other night I dreamed that my maid invited her friends to our placehen we were not around. It's really strange.
AAA, MIL will hv to jaga darius so FIL will fetch ah bian instead. And sometimes FIL insists to fetch as he will say its on the way since he is gg to buy papers or wadever lah. To conclude, MIL can never override him. I will ask hb to try to tok to FIL cos i cannot stand him not holding my boy's hands...to think of worse scenario is someone will just grab ah bian and run off...then how, who will ask for this rgt?
nanabear911
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caicai : thanks for sharing with me!! thanks so much! i feel better now..
AAA : gynae said cannot do anything.. just have tat to be on the safe side and be mentally prepared..
AAA : gynae said cannot do anything.. just have tat to be on the safe side and be mentally prepared..
babylovespink2
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Germaine: Yah, I agree with your hubby. Unless you're prepared to send her off. Else, just got to tahan..
BBMar: Yah yah.. Ask your hubby to talk to his father.. Very effective.
Kaexin: Speaking of shoes.. Tell you a funny joke. I've kept my heels for quite soime time since I got preggie. Last Sat, I brought one of them out to wear.. But before I could reach my destination, the straps on my shoe came off!! Luckily I was at a shopping mall and could go barefooted for just a while to buy another pair. *my goodness*
Hubby suggested we go home instead, but I'm more garang. Just took off my shoes and walked into the closest shoe shop. Wahahhaa!!! I even asked the SA to throw my shoes away after my purchase.
And I took a pic of my lao-yah shoe.. Wait I post here..
Wahahahha!!!
BBMar: Yah yah.. Ask your hubby to talk to his father.. Very effective.
Kaexin: Speaking of shoes.. Tell you a funny joke. I've kept my heels for quite soime time since I got preggie. Last Sat, I brought one of them out to wear.. But before I could reach my destination, the straps on my shoe came off!! Luckily I was at a shopping mall and could go barefooted for just a while to buy another pair. *my goodness*
Hubby suggested we go home instead, but I'm more garang. Just took off my shoes and walked into the closest shoe shop. Wahahhaa!!! I even asked the SA to throw my shoes away after my purchase.
nanabear911
Active Member
pink : ya.. my maid in for 3rd week liaoz.. sigh.. i also dunno wat to say.. she is an indo.. only 23 .. got 2 kids.. so far ok la.. just tat i will vomit blood when talking to her.. and she very timid..
have to give her time to learn lor..
have to give her time to learn lor..
babylovespink2
New Member
Here is the pair of broken shoes..
babylovespink2
New Member
Nana: Hey, then just stay positive and pray. And start eating more. Take some durians to bu her up.
lurvecakes
New Member
hi mummies!
Bbmar,
oh no. Poor ah bian. U must ask him to remember to always hold yeye hand tight. Will ur fil hold his hand if ah bian hold his hand? Or ur fil don wan to hold? It is so wierd lor.
Bbmar,
oh no. Poor ah bian. U must ask him to remember to always hold yeye hand tight. Will ur fil hold his hand if ah bian hold his hand? Or ur fil don wan to hold? It is so wierd lor.
lurvecakes
New Member
bbmar,
ic. Ai yo.
Nana,
u ask ur dr, can u don watch ur weight and eat more to let bb grow bigger? Eat durains? Drink more milk and tonic.
ic. Ai yo.
Nana,
u ask ur dr, can u don watch ur weight and eat more to let bb grow bigger? Eat durains? Drink more milk and tonic.
nanabear911
Active Member
Thanks AAA!
caicai : me stuffing myself with chocolates liaoz.. hahahahah!
yvonne : ya.. i tot of that .. hack care the wt la! later den decide.. just eat first.. tonite i wanna eat durians!
caicai : me stuffing myself with chocolates liaoz.. hahahahah!
yvonne : ya.. i tot of that .. hack care the wt la! later den decide.. just eat first.. tonite i wanna eat durians!
bbmar
maybe he feels that boys must be independent?
AAA
u give keys to your maids? otherwise, they wont be able to invite pple in rite?
u are lucky that there's a nearby shoe shop!
Nana
beginning sure vomit blood la. slowly give her time.
Giolyn
unless she does something that may cause danger to your kids, if not not to the extent of calling the agency, not worth it.
maybe he feels that boys must be independent?
AAA
u give keys to your maids? otherwise, they wont be able to invite pple in rite?
u are lucky that there's a nearby shoe shop!
Nana
beginning sure vomit blood la. slowly give her time.
Giolyn
unless she does something that may cause danger to your kids, if not not to the extent of calling the agency, not worth it.
babylovespink2
New Member
Pink: My house's lock is opened/locked on the inside. ie, they don't need to have a key to open the door for someone to come in. And if they want to go out, they can go out without locking the door, and still be able to open the door when they come back. 
Kaexin: Yah, I've kept the shoes for too long.. Apoil also good lah, else I don't know when I can buy new shoes again. I have soooooooo many.. Some new ones which I've not worn before, and will prob never wear again..
Pink: Good thing hubby is there for comfort.. If I'm alone, I'll feel more embarrassed. At the worst, I'll walk barefooted back to the car and drive home.
Kaexin: Aldo shoes always "bite" me.. I've only got their heels though, not the flats..
Kaexin: Yah, I've kept the shoes for too long.. Apoil also good lah, else I don't know when I can buy new shoes again. I have soooooooo many.. Some new ones which I've not worn before, and will prob never wear again..
Pink: Good thing hubby is there for comfort.. If I'm alone, I'll feel more embarrassed. At the worst, I'll walk barefooted back to the car and drive home.
Kaexin: Aldo shoes always "bite" me.. I've only got their heels though, not the flats..
looking for SQ!!!
hey i am heading to my mum's place at Jurong this sat. u still need to change the tupperware? give me an email [email protected] or buzz me 93390663 to arrange ok? thanks!
hey i am heading to my mum's place at Jurong this sat. u still need to change the tupperware? give me an email [email protected] or buzz me 93390663 to arrange ok? thanks!
yo, terrible monday for me. had to ask colig to dabao lunch for me.
nana, aiyo...
actually no worry bah. my sil delivered bb at wk 34, size 1.7kg also. now the bb also drinking well, sleeping well, and growing well. Dr said the size is inline with the week woh. so week 32 of size 1.8kg, ok liao. later part can chiong somemore. dun think too much.
dun scare me also, cause i also preg now. but i dun take vit diligently de. i got drink one cup of milk daily except today.
so u eat durian? oh my god. i haven't tried durian for dunno how many months liao. maybe we go eat durian one day? want or not?
eh durian is BETTER than this chocolate bah. durian has protein, but choc has oni sugar. no no... go eat durian.
actually birdnest also got protein, but dun eat too much can liao.
nana, aiyo...
actually no worry bah. my sil delivered bb at wk 34, size 1.7kg also. now the bb also drinking well, sleeping well, and growing well. Dr said the size is inline with the week woh. so week 32 of size 1.8kg, ok liao. later part can chiong somemore. dun think too much.
dun scare me also, cause i also preg now. but i dun take vit diligently de. i got drink one cup of milk daily except today.
so u eat durian? oh my god. i haven't tried durian for dunno how many months liao. maybe we go eat durian one day? want or not?
eh durian is BETTER than this chocolate bah. durian has protein, but choc has oni sugar. no no... go eat durian.
actually birdnest also got protein, but dun eat too much can liao.
Ash, my hb going over to your office area on wed afternoon, or evening. so i ask him to beep beep u when he is there.
i got loots for u and mist with me.
BB, poor ah bian. run until fell down. nevermind bah, i hope your fil can sayang him more. maybe for boys, ok? tough tough since young.
i got loots for u and mist with me.
BB, poor ah bian. run until fell down. nevermind bah, i hope your fil can sayang him more. maybe for boys, ok? tough tough since young.
wiky
Active Member
Nana,
actually size not too big a concern. As long as by delivery time, the bb is more than 2kg for discharge is good enough. You still got to keep watch on your diet and weight else if you gain too much towards the end then might have other complications.
Your concern is more about the legs' length? But that's not something you can do anything about so think positively bah.
actually size not too big a concern. As long as by delivery time, the bb is more than 2kg for discharge is good enough. You still got to keep watch on your diet and weight else if you gain too much towards the end then might have other complications.
Your concern is more about the legs' length? But that's not something you can do anything about so think positively bah.
shopping_queen
New Member
wa magsmum
v long dun have pple look for me liao. thot i owe you $
sat i'm not home leh...
never mind lah, u dun let me hold you up
bbmar
talk about fil not listening. mine never let YE buckle up. somemore let her sit in front passenger seat! he always say short distance and he drives slowly. so i can hi5 your frustration and worry and heartpain. sigh... bie2 ti2 le4
nana
gynaes got to do a lot of things to cover themselves. SOP. so they can protect themselves if things go wrong. u take one step at a time. worry is inevitable but you keep reminding yourself that worrying doesnt help things
v long dun have pple look for me liao. thot i owe you $
sat i'm not home leh...
never mind lah, u dun let me hold you up
bbmar
talk about fil not listening. mine never let YE buckle up. somemore let her sit in front passenger seat! he always say short distance and he drives slowly. so i can hi5 your frustration and worry and heartpain. sigh... bie2 ti2 le4
nana
gynaes got to do a lot of things to cover themselves. SOP. so they can protect themselves if things go wrong. u take one step at a time. worry is inevitable but you keep reminding yourself that worrying doesnt help things
Pink: man is man loh.. he say buy something useful mah.. see the princess can play but no writing.. haiz. Yeah.. she riding her own bicycle loh.. 2 wheel with stabilizer.
Bbmarch: how come ur FIL like tt.. anyone else to help u fetch ah bian?
RR: Friday nite ah.. yeah.. at my mum’s place than went temple at nite for prayers. I always miss ur play date.
Bbmarch: how come ur FIL like tt.. anyone else to help u fetch ah bian?
RR: Friday nite ah.. yeah.. at my mum’s place than went temple at nite for prayers. I always miss ur play date.
shopping_queen
New Member
aaa
i used to have my shoes falling out all the time when i'm outside. nowadays i stick to crocs and fitflop so dun have that problem. sigh.... i'm so auntie
caicai
you oni have 5kg more. i still have 10
i used to have my shoes falling out all the time when i'm outside. nowadays i stick to crocs and fitflop so dun have that problem. sigh.... i'm so auntie
caicai
you oni have 5kg more. i still have 10
shopping_queen
New Member
rr
did you serve coconut jelly for your playdate?
i feel like eating coconut jelly after reading all your posts
autum
you have tian1 fen4. you always "anyhow" try things and they turn out well. lanterns, pig trotters, beef stew, coconut jelly etc. it's good you have more time at home to explore now.
did you serve coconut jelly for your playdate?
i feel like eating coconut jelly after reading all your posts
autum
you have tian1 fen4. you always "anyhow" try things and they turn out well. lanterns, pig trotters, beef stew, coconut jelly etc. it's good you have more time at home to explore now.
shopping_queen
New Member
pink
i also brought YE to watch dragon show over the weekend. think it was too loud for her and she cant really appreciate
i also brought YE to watch dragon show over the weekend. think it was too loud for her and she cant really appreciate