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Hmm, you can instruct him to say if ellie hit him? But then again, YT can always answer me that she is supposed to tell me, papa and ah ma if she poo but she NEVER did. Always wait till kenna caught by us. She knows the theory but just can't get the practical right.
Now that you mention it, everytime I ask YT if she needs to go pee/poo in the potty, she always answers "no" then end up doing it in her pants but if I never asked, she will just go when she needs to. Duh...
Also, for mummies with girls, when you are outside, how you let your girls pee/poo? Cuz not every shopping centres has kiddie sized toilet bowls.