(2007/03) March 2007 MTBs
- Thread starter rae_cheong
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Star: i dun find teng 'difficult'.. i find him stubborn and persistent.. and he gets into bad habits VERY easily leh. as in he forms assoications very fast.. it would be great if it is all the GOOD asociations..but god bless me if it is a bad one..
i dunno why. then i got to find GREAT strength to undo his bad habits.. which he will fight to hold on to.. like now. my mum/ellie pats him to sleep.. u know he will do the 'pat his own bottom' gesture should he find that he is able to wake.. then if me.. he will whine.. took me a week to tell him ' i wun pat u , now sleep!'..
see lah.. headache.
he is reserved and timid.. meek..anti-social.. these are the things i am worried about.
i dunno why. then i got to find GREAT strength to undo his bad habits.. which he will fight to hold on to.. like now. my mum/ellie pats him to sleep.. u know he will do the 'pat his own bottom' gesture should he find that he is able to wake.. then if me.. he will whine.. took me a week to tell him ' i wun pat u , now sleep!'..
see lah.. headache.
he is reserved and timid.. meek..anti-social.. these are the things i am worried about.
shopping_queen
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RR
dun talk about Reyes
even i refuse to pee and poo in a dirty toilet
i will ren3 for the whole day if i need to
yucks
dun talk about Reyes
even i refuse to pee and poo in a dirty toilet
i will ren3 for the whole day if i need to
yucks
shopping_queen
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astro
pat his own backside?
haha so funnie!
can you take video next time
haha sorry for laughing
aiyo teng is just quiet lah. dun label him!
pat his own backside?
haha so funnie!
can you take video next time
haha sorry for laughing
aiyo teng is just quiet lah. dun label him!
RR/star/Autum: *points* to my post above.. wait ah. let me re-read what i wrote..have i typed in the word 'difficult'?? no wor..gosh. ok.. i DO have a problem with my articulation today!! 
SQ: hmmm.. dun think too much about that liao. coz ah. if YE gets into her teens and still so close to u. then we will all be saying 'envious'!!
SQ: hmmm.. dun think too much about that liao. coz ah. if YE gets into her teens and still so close to u. then we will all be saying 'envious'!!
shopping_queen
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astro
i do want YE to be close to me
but that's different from sticking to me to the extent that she will cry and cry for me and refuse to be pacified even by her own father
it's ok if she's especially close to me and i'm the special one
but not to the extent that she oni has me in her heart and no one else
that is scary
ok, i'm gonna zzz liao. see you gals in GUG tomr
i do want YE to be close to me
but that's different from sticking to me to the extent that she will cry and cry for me and refuse to be pacified even by her own father
it's ok if she's especially close to me and i'm the special one
but not to the extent that she oni has me in her heart and no one else
that is scary
ok, i'm gonna zzz liao. see you gals in GUG tomr
shopping_queen
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haha autum
let's not scare ourselves now
let's not scare ourselves now
RR: ha.. as compared to last time.. i am really laxed about what i expect from him liao.. these day. i let him 'suprise' me wor
but teng is indeed fast to form associations.. hmm.. more egs? ok.. these days i tell him. 'i dun want u to suck ur thumb unless u want to sleep'.. (coz he will suck his thumb while watching tv.. like pek kiak like that.. wah liew!).. then i will tell him take out his thumb else i will swtich off the tv.. or whatever not.. then battle for about 2 days or so.. now. he sees me. he wun suck.. and when he is secreatly indulgin in his thumb sucking when carried by my mum.. as soon as he hears my voice (even when his back is facing me).. he will burst out crying and taek out his thumb.. so there u go lah.. this boy very manipulative.. ha
SQ: ha. must be when my mum or ellie is around.. with me. i cannot capture the momemnt liao. funny hor? i also find it funny but i controlled myself not to laugh.. but i am amused lor..
ha.. i am not the first to say he is anti-social liao.. miser, ellie, my mum.. and my frens.. is saying teng dun mix well with others.. but i beleive he needs time lah.. more time than usual, perhaps..
but teng is indeed fast to form associations.. hmm.. more egs? ok.. these days i tell him. 'i dun want u to suck ur thumb unless u want to sleep'.. (coz he will suck his thumb while watching tv.. like pek kiak like that.. wah liew!
).. then i will tell him take out his thumb else i will swtich off the tv.. or whatever not.. then battle for about 2 days or so.. now. he sees me. he wun suck.. and when he is secreatly indulgin in his thumb sucking when carried by my mum.. as soon as he hears my voice (even when his back is facing me).. he will burst out crying and taek out his thumb.. so there u go lah.. this boy very manipulative.. ha SQ: ha. must be when my mum or ellie is around.. with me. i cannot capture the momemnt liao. funny hor? i also find it funny but i controlled myself not to laugh.. but i am amused lor..
ha.. i am not the first to say he is anti-social liao.. miser, ellie, my mum.. and my frens.. is saying teng dun mix well with others.. but i beleive he needs time lah.. more time than usual, perhaps..
shopping_queen
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astro
thank you for the reassurance
i love you
thank you for the reassurance
i love you
wiky
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YY,
the thumb sucking example shows that he knows that's wrong but cos it's a habit so abit difficult to kick off. Can't say he's stubborn cos of that lah.
Oh, I re-read your posts also didn't find the word "difficult". Then I realised it's this post that gave me the impression that you think Teng's difficult.
"my mum said.. i was an easy child.. my grandma always had no problem to make me eat.. and i was told i eat A LOT.. ha. maybe that's why my built.. but i dun think i gave my parents a hard time for being soft right? or reserved? why is my son like that? alamak.."
The opposite of "easy" is "difficult" mah.
the thumb sucking example shows that he knows that's wrong but cos it's a habit so abit difficult to kick off. Can't say he's stubborn cos of that lah.
Oh, I re-read your posts also didn't find the word "difficult". Then I realised it's this post that gave me the impression that you think Teng's difficult.
"my mum said.. i was an easy child.. my grandma always had no problem to make me eat.. and i was told i eat A LOT.. ha. maybe that's why my built.. but i dun think i gave my parents a hard time for being soft right? or reserved? why is my son like that? alamak.."
The opposite of "easy" is "difficult" mah.
RR: stubborn coz he will normally resists a little longer.. then usual lah..
no wor. i meant. i didn't give my parents a hard time.. coz i wasn't that reserved.. but my boy is very reserved.. hence that gives me a hard time..
alamak.. i am losing my ability to articulate?
ha.. too much headaches this evening!
no wor. i meant. i didn't give my parents a hard time.. coz i wasn't that reserved.. but my boy is very reserved.. hence that gives me a hard time..
alamak.. i am losing my ability to articulate?
ha.. too much headaches this evening!
Irin,
hahah.. for a moment, i thought i gave u the impression that i want to burn the charcoal on the tiles! haahahahahah... u got many pieces of the tiles? if u can spare 2 pcs, would be good.. if not, never mind.. no problem. but see how la, if i go your house then take.
Astro,
New-age SAHM is with maid in tow mah
hahah.. for a moment, i thought i gave u the impression that i want to burn the charcoal on the tiles! haahahahahah... u got many pieces of the tiles? if u can spare 2 pcs, would be good.. if not, never mind.. no problem. but see how la, if i go your house then take.
Astro,
New-age SAHM is with maid in tow mah
wiky
Active Member
Autum,
ya, I've got like 5 pieces of those, should be ok to spare you 2 but will need you to come pick it. I wouldn't want to be caught going around with 2 big pieces of homogenous tiles.
SAHM with maid is called "Tai Tai". wahaha!!
YY,
it's you. Nothing's crossed. It's just cos there's only the few of us here. hahaha!!
ya, I've got like 5 pieces of those, should be ok to spare you 2 but will need you to come pick it. I wouldn't want to be caught going around with 2 big pieces of homogenous tiles.
SAHM with maid is called "Tai Tai". wahaha!!
YY,
it's you. Nothing's crossed. It's just cos there's only the few of us here. hahaha!!
Whew, back from St. James Power station. Wahaha.
YY,
Erm, if you are talking about the cheese potato side dish, that time I talked about it was Botak Jones at Serangoon, not Ashton. I dun think Ashton have a cheese potato side.
As for crying at cc, playgroup, I heard about children who NEVER stop. But of cuz subsequently, I guess they only cried for the first 10 mins or so lar and not the whole session.
Re: Toilet training
Hmm, YT still dun tell me that she has pooed until I asked her! In fact, sometimes she will lied that she haven't pooed if she is engrossed in doing something so that we dun pull her to the toilet. I tried sitting her at the potty but so far always been dry. Sigh. She also refused to try taking off her own shorts. But I finally managed to make her take off the diapers herself.
YY,
Erm, if you are talking about the cheese potato side dish, that time I talked about it was Botak Jones at Serangoon, not Ashton. I dun think Ashton have a cheese potato side.
As for crying at cc, playgroup, I heard about children who NEVER stop. But of cuz subsequently, I guess they only cried for the first 10 mins or so lar and not the whole session.
Re: Toilet training
Hmm, YT still dun tell me that she has pooed until I asked her! In fact, sometimes she will lied that she haven't pooed if she is engrossed in doing something so that we dun pull her to the toilet. I tried sitting her at the potty but so far always been dry. Sigh. She also refused to try taking off her own shorts. But I finally managed to make her take off the diapers herself.
Good morning mummies.
Well, CO is experiencing very intense insecureness. The moment, she saw me changed to long pant, she will cry for HB. Yesterday, we want to go shopping, she cried and cried, despite us telling her, "No school, we going shopping!" BIG Sign. She is such a crying baby now...I think she will take a longer time to adapt to this school.
The last time, at least, she will not cry when we bring her to school. Only reached school, then she cried. Then again, she is 18 months old. I also unsure what is what. Whether she is older so knows what is happening, or she dont like this school.
Sorry, early morning, long post. : )
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Well, CO is experiencing very intense insecureness. The moment, she saw me changed to long pant, she will cry for HB. Yesterday, we want to go shopping, she cried and cried, despite us telling her, "No school, we going shopping!" BIG Sign. She is such a crying baby now...I think she will take a longer time to adapt to this school.
The last time, at least, she will not cry when we bring her to school. Only reached school, then she cried. Then again, she is 18 months old. I also unsure what is what. Whether she is older so knows what is happening, or she dont like this school.
Sorry, early morning, long post. : )
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hi mummies..
sorry for going off suddenly as S suddenly wakes up fm her slp and shout.. "mama come here!" and so i went to slp with her.. and she took so long to go back to slp...
CK: maybe she doesn't like the sch.. were u the one who got the cc to video clip for u? teachers nice? maybe she can't associate with the trs.. kids are still young... u have to assure her that school is fun and hopefully, it's really fun lah...they need time to adjutt and adapt...
sorry for going off suddenly as S suddenly wakes up fm her slp and shout.. "mama come here!" and so i went to slp with her.. and she took so long to go back to slp...
CK: maybe she doesn't like the sch.. were u the one who got the cc to video clip for u? teachers nice? maybe she can't associate with the trs.. kids are still young... u have to assure her that school is fun and hopefully, it's really fun lah...they need time to adjutt and adapt...