am coping ok with having both boys around but really not sure how to handle when the confinement lady returns home next Wed. Currently, Timothy is co-sleeping with us and I am wondering if Jeremy also co-sleeps, what if he wakes Timothy up with his night time crying? Any advice on how to cope? The first night we brought Jeremy back from hospital (confinement lady had not arrive yet at that time), Jeremy started crying and Timothy also started crying as he insist that he wants to go over to the baby's room to comfort the younger brother. Wah, that was a challenge particularly in the middle of the night.
Charis, yes... i remembered your difficult time when you stayed with your MIL. Gigg, yes... starting to have MIL issues. Actually, I was ok with my MIL for the past year until recently because she didn't like me to engage a confinement lady. My MIL is very fussy about tidiness and cleanliness, and all things must be done EXACTLY HER WAY. The confinement lady didn't know that and MIL really blew up with me. She showed the confinement lady and me 'black face' for quite a few days. A week later, MIL picked up a quarrel with my hb over some things that I said months ago and it was really her mis-interpreting my intentions. No amount of explantion from my hb could convince her and in the end, my hb just said, "If you really think so, then let it be." Anyway, I have not been fighting back my MIL (just avoid her) and am trying not to let MIL affect me too greatly... shouldn't let her make me get into post natal depression right? ;-)
It's really terrible not owning our place. Example every Wed morning is my MIL's dictated clean the house day... although I do not need to help clean the place (I chip in by engaging part time help comes in to clean on Sat), me and the kids must get out of the house by 8am. Where can I go? Shopping centres are not open yet so that leaves me with only my parent's place right? There was once when it was not convenient to go over to my parents' place, i nearly checked into Changi Village hotel. Pathetic right? Ok lah, at least can still afford to check in to hotel so not so pathetic. haha
wah, chocobabe... u can afford so many properties *envy* I am just taking one step at a time to buy one first by 2nd or 3rd quarter this year
