Char,
If Kienan already weaned off pacifier then best not to start it off again. I want to wean Claire off but as of now it's nearly impossible, sigh. I only let her take when she's going to sleep. But when she starts talking I will try again. I never trained Claire to sleep through the night, but the exact night she turned 8 months hor, she stopped waking up for night feed, heehee. I still do direct latch at home and on the weekends.
zenn,
When I see that she's tired I will try to bring her to a quiet corner and cuddle her for a while, pat pat her a bit. If she is tired she will drift off within five min. If trying to make her sleep, sure will not succeed. She also likes to finger the tip of her Kammi doll while trying to sleep, think it comforts her. And most importantly, the pacifier. Sigh. But like I tell Char, please dun start on the pacifier if Estelle doesn't use it in the first place.
At my mum's usually my mother will give her a small wash cloth (in place of the Kammi), her pacifier, and switch on some music for her. Esp if there is air con on, she'll be off to dreamland by herself in 10 min.