hi lawpei.
read abt your struggles. pat pat. fully understand
i went thru a period of food everywhere- bib, table, chair, floor. anywhere but mouth cos baby was blowing raspberries (spitting if u like). he seemed to take his porridge a bit better when i added some milk in. not sure if it'll work for trisha, but u can try.
it really is trial and error cos babies are all so different. one day he liked it smooth and creamy, the next, chunky. sometimes prefers it warmer, sometimes cooler
it is really tough seeing all the hard work (in cooking) going down the drain. i ended up in tears very often, but now i take the 'don't want, throw, and no more food for you' stand. rather than beg, scold, cajole and stress both baby and mummy. it is a waste of food, money and precious time, but it keeps one more sane.
hang in there, gal