ladies,
i dunno, i guess some older people advise not to drink herbal stuff at 1st tri... some i heard say was too much for the mother's body.. maybe over heaty, some say becos now too early, anyway tonic is useless.
zenn,
I know danggui is for creating blood or what, so if ur menses coming, cant eat becos generate more blood, but i dunno abt pregnancy can eat or not.
i feel breathless, but i guess cant so anything much cos now blood flow to the bb as well.. so mummy easier tired and no strength.
with regards to bb w/o heartbeat, YES, very common.. *sigh* 1 in every 5 cases, when doc told me this I was real shock. It happens to me on my last m/c and doctor can only say it is becos of bad gene/ or even bad luck as 2 things, either one is not so good, when merge together they lost some impt information which hinder the growth later on.. There is nothing we can do to prevent it.. perhaps just healthy living between the 2 couple before they start TTC.