sorry mommies haven't written lately.. been so busy with their 1 yr party and all...
straw
cayley finally can suck the straw already!
thanks for all your tips! austin still not wanting to tho.. i jus everyday let him use his mag mag cup and he plays with it more than even try to suck it! so i would use spoon to feed him water first, then let him play.. but he still not wanting to drink water and blows everything out.. oh well, hope its a phase..
sippy cup,
the only sippy spout thing tat they used was the mag mag, and austin manage to bite it off. the hard spouts they didn't know how to use.. so i give up, now i go straight to trying straw or nothing at all.
mothers day
wah.. seems like everyone had a good mothers day!
i kinda did too. tho was tired out by end of the day! went to sentosa with my tots, maid and hubby.. had a good time!
actually i thot i was going to get a day off, but no leh
anyways, glad i spent the day being a mom tho, more meaningful too!
audrey,
gyne told me after 2nd scan that i have 2 eggs.. and then double confirm with beta blood test?
dodo / MIL
i think most of us here have problems with MIL. i also had my share of it, even tho i dun stay with her. even my mom also sometimes i cannot tahan.. from food, to dress, to going out, to everything you can think of lah, also got something to say. so my deal now is as much as i feel the kids should have their share of doting grandparents often, i handle the kids myself, and my rules mostly. grandmas jus see them for meals or weekends type and whenever, but caregiving and decision making, i do the final say.. so less '2 cents worth' type of nagging/talk/watever you call it.
Maids
i have indo maid, and i think indo maids have no contracted day offs right? for me, i jus give when either she ask for it, or if i think she has been too tired lah. and weekends hubby and i bring them out ourselves sometimes, so she got some peace and also time away from kids to breathe..
but as for the kids preference to maid, i try to be neutral most times.. none of them sleep with her, and sometimes i handle cayley, and other days, i handle austin. i have been badly wanting to be more independant and not bring her out with me, but i know its not possible right now cos austin hates sitting in the car, and the stroller. so its hard to do it alone. i salute you fi!
but overall, i dun think i will be comfortable with the maid being overly close to the baby (like kissing them and all) but play with them, and relatively close to them, i am ok. i tell myself rather she has feelings for them and treat them well, than to treat it like a job and may abuse them.
'experienced' comments
i have learnt not to listen to mommies who feels they have all the 'power' in the world to give me their 2 cents worth, and their thots on raising kids cos they have had 2 or 3 or more. cos its jus not the same with twins! and somehow i dun understand why they dun get it! its jus not the same with twins! so now i only read books to enhance myself, and try to listen to experiences of mommies of twins / multiples. its more benefitting. thats why sometimes i dread being with my mom or mil, or even the market for too long! cos i have to listen to all their 'talk'! i know sometimes i am mean.. and our mommies/mil wants to jus be helpful, but it really doesn't help.
sigh.. i sometimes jus hope the grannies jus play doting grannies and tahts it. thats why i love this thread
all the mommies here soooo helpful!