(2006/12) December 2006 MTBs

aiyo.. supposed to go collect my cheap cheap 2nd hand cot tonight.. but till now still unable to contact the seller regarding her address....
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my imagination is running wild again... wondering if someone gave a better offer n she decided to fly my plane... aaahhhhhhh....
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och,
Will ask my gyane during the next visit which is 2 weeks away
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Shihui,
Dont think too much lor...Have u pay the seller?
 
MBB & Ladies,

Talking abt pain relief, think I've tried all during my 1st birth.... siao rite? After 1 day of endurance on the contraction due to the medication from induction, I couldn't take it anymore and that stupid nurse keep tempting me with the injection and I took it, not 1 but 2, cos too long liao..... then took epidural b4 labour to ease the pain and the medication finishes b4 I gave birth, but since it's already dilated and bb will be out anytime, they did not adminster anymore medication and gave birth liao. But the thing is that there's a last stage of labour where the placenta is to be push out, will still have pain, so I took the gas and was very high. So ended up I've tried all the pain relief method in my 1st attempt.
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Hi Dec-to-be mummies,

All of you must be excited about seeing your new arrival soon! Would like to congratulate all of you for being able to see your precious babies soon!

I am conducting a BP on disposable absorbent sheets: http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/449156/563822.html?1162473379

This sheet can be used to put on the bed in the last trimester in case your waterbag burst when you sleep. It can also be used after giving birth to prevent staining on your bed from the heavy flow of lochia.

Am starting this BP as I'm a Jan mum-to-be and am getting some for myself as well as the Jan mummies.

Do take a look if you are interested.

Once again, congratulations and hope all of you will have a smooth delivery!

Regards,
Mrs Wong
 
Jackie
I attended the antenatal classes at Mt E...was adviced by the midwife during the session on pain relief that we shd hv a birthing plan b4 we go for delivery i.e. shld hv some idea of what type of pain relief options we want to go for loh. They will try their best to meet ur wishes but they r very experienced n sometimes they can tell when a mother is already at maximum pain threshold (n still not willing to go for epidural) so they will try to persuade the mother. I dun think they will just give u a shot just like that when u enter the delivery ward. Think u shld discuss various options with ur gynae.

The injection given is called pethidine which is a narcotic (like Och said)...baby will come out drowsy and bb will usually be given another shot to counter the effects when he comes out. Dr Chua told me pethidine is useless bcos it just makes u high. So I definitely won't be hving that.

Gas n air which is a mixture of oxygen and nitrous oxide (laughing gas) apparently is very effective if u use it properly. We were taught how to use it during the antenatal class but the midwife will teach u when u r in delivery. My fren gave birth using only gas n air and said it worked for her. It minised the pain n she was still able to feel the contractions coming so the pushing was very effective.

Lastly, as u know epidural, the most effective as it numbs the body from waist down. But once they put u on Epidural u r not mobile anymore cause they will also have to put u on a drip to manage ur blood pressure and insert a cathether to collect ur urine. Frens who had epidural said that they couldn't feel the contractions coming so the pushing was not as effective. Those who have tried both with n w/o epi said that the feeling of labour w/o epi is very rewarding. That's why I think I will try gas n air first.
 
Jackie,
she finally sms me her address aft 7pm... :p luckily i haven't pay ah.. else i think i will hav panick attack liao.. heee~ :p the cot not bad lah.. the wheels abit worn out liao.. but it's okie lor.. got some sticker on the board.. but nvm as well.. overall condition actually quite gd..
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och,
not bad leh..
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at least better than the previous one..
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och, I see... luckily the GP did not give me antibiotics when I see him on Monday.. I think I will steer clear of all antibiotics for the next few weeks! I am afraid of puke!

Just now went to see gynae. Baby is 1400g at 32weeks +. Abit small again. Gynae is trying to schedule for another u/s cum doppler scan to see if bb is growing all right. When I ask her for scenarios, she said that if placenta is not absorbing properly, I might have to give birth earlier for bb to have a bigger chance outside the womb. Anyone know of anyone else with such cases? Will it be induced or c-section?

Or it could simply be a case of petite parents, petite baby (afterall, whose hubby is only 50kg please raise your hands!)

och/choo, ask her re admission and she said that she will pass me an admission letter nearer to the date and I will need to bring this, I/C and all previous bills on check-in date.

Also detected high blood pressure (140/95) so she gave me meds to lower and control the blood pressure (not sure if its bcos I ate saltish McD's fries just 1 hour beforehand!)

Not sure if I stress the gynae but she kept emphasising for me to call her immediately if the bb movement drops.

Now hubby is mumbling/grumbling since he is flying off on Monday.

Qianhui, pls help to update. 1400g at 32+ weeks. Thanks!
 
Chang and others,
When i went for my ante natal class, the faciliator say we should bath the bb everyday le...coz our weather is quite hot.

with regard to the maternity pads, the sales gal from Kotex told me that it is better to use maternity pad because no wing (i.e. wing can hurt the stitches) and the surface of the pad is smooth (unlike the normal pad which has lines on it). So i plan to use the maternity pad for at least one week, then only switch to normal pad lor
 
Lil, my friend gave birth last month and she took only pethidine. She said it make her really drowsy and in a way, ease the pain. Actually, i have a relative on long term use of pethidine and i understand that it is a very effective means of pain relief. Normally, the person will fall asleep within 15 mins as well, but it is unlikely to happen to a woman in labour as she will still feel the slight pain.
 
lil, hahha...u make sense. well, i suppose sometimes maybe a tiny part of the wing is adhere to the surface of panty rather than the bottom of the panty? if you examine the surface of the maternity pad and normal pad, it is true that they are different, i.e. maternity pad surface is super plain.
 
these few days when i walk, i can feel the nerves in my left thigh being pull. the pulling feeling is veri painful n i cannot walk normally. i have to walk veri slow n abit limping to my right. my gastric also pain thou i hav eat proper meals. do u gals have these kinda of sypmtoms also?
 
Hi everyone

Dunno if you gals still remember me.... I MIA for a looong time liao... Was very busy at work... then 3 weeks ago, I was down with hand, foot and mouth diesease!!!! It was really very very miserable.... thankfully baby is ok. But got a lecture from my gynae, "don't try to be a heroine and get yourself so tired.... giving birth soon liao, so must get lots of rest...dun make yourself so tired that your immune system is so low..." :p
So I was on MC for 2 1/2 weeks... Now back at work....Now I guai guai liao..... try to rest as much as possible...
So all the gals here... please take good care of yourselves, have plenty of rest so that your immune system won't be low.... you never know what kind of funny viruses there are out there....

Qianhui, can you please update for me... my girl girl is 2083g @ 32wks. Thanks
 
good morning!!TGIF!!

Serene,

yup my temp is sharing my pc...
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i got forum witdrawal sympton leh...
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so sneak in every morning only....

bobianah,

oh!! i shall try buy the ' cheese ball'this evening!
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craved for one week!
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tomorow will go YET CON for the pork chop! yum yum!!
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my CL bed and cupboard wil be here tomorow liao! n hope tomorow weather is good to wash bb last round of things!!

Vanessa,

Can really call u if i encounter Breastfeeding issue??!! afraid of interrupting u cos u will on confinement too....

for the breastmilk..after delivery it will surely come out naturally? cos now i feel like trying to see got some milk but scared of stimulating 'anyting' so dun dare try?

btw when can we start eat coconut? 34 weeks can? my dad cut some last night bt he afraid dun let me eat...

raspberry tea leave ? when to start drink?
 
Good Morning Ladies,

It's Friday!
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Tml visiting gynae and finally able to clarified my pain with her liao. Aiyo, the contraction was very bad, but last for a 1-2 mins. The pain is all the way to my back and my hb suspected it's due to the epidural I had for the last pregnancy.....Hopefully tml can get assurance of not pre-term labour.... scare man....

Choo,

No Problem, but if I tell u I'm busy hor, then don't be angry hor, I will call u back again lah.... then if not u can send email to me or log in here lor, if I'm free, I will come in here to chat also..... Else call BMSG hotline lor, there are ppl who can give u advice on BF too.

Breastmilk will come in after 4-5 days from the delivery, some may b earlier or later, depends on how well u stimulate ur breast for milk to come (i.e how often u let ur bb latch on). Initial days u will only have colostrum in abt 2.5ml to 5ml quantity, but not to worry and don't substitute any formula (IMPT) cos it will interrupt ur stimulation, just be confident urself that u will have milk coming in in no time and bb have their reserved for 1 weeks, so they can just survive on the colostrum for 1 week and by then, ur milk should have flow if u really stimulate enough.

For coconut, I will recommend to start ard 35 weeks for 1 bi-weekly, then last month, 1 per week. As for raspberry tea, I'm not sure, cos I've nvr tried b4.
 
good morning ladies! TGIF!
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Choo,
Wish you success in buying the sausages tonite! Remember, dun ask them anything, see the counter, have, just buy! =P Enjoy ur pork chops/roast pork and when u are there, look around and wonder at at old counter, abacus etc. That place a bit ancient. heehee!

Dora,
sorry to here that you've not been well. HFMD! aiyoh! Take care of yourself and rest well.
 
Good morning ladies! Yup! It's the long awaited friday!

Last night finally went to Botak Jones to try out.. ate their fish and chips..really nice..portion is really big..me and hubby shared the large size already so full..

Vanessa,
Do we stimulate the breast milk just by latching the baby on? Or can we use the breast pump as well?

Dora,
Glad that u r alright now..do take care of yourself.. rest well..
 
Good Morning Ladies,
Hee, yap its Friday !

Och,
Ok, thanks for your advise, i'll monitor myself well
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MBB,
It works for me for my 1st delivery. It sort of made me drowsy, and i realised i slept a little during some part of my contractions, and that was when it wasn't that intense. During the last lap of contraction, i was half using and half trying to breathe and keep telling hubby to call nurse, coz bb coming out.

Vanessa,
I took one coconut this week (me week 34) hee..really nice leh.
 
morning ladies,
was on mc yterday..went to c gynae..
he said my tummy cramp is normal leh..
if i cannot tahan, can induce fr 14th onwards which is full term liao..of coz i dun wan lah..heehee

qianhui,
my bb weighs 2.6kg at 35wks+
help me update...ok??thank you very much

serene,
i asked dr adrian abt the CTG scan..he said nt necessary for me leh...
and he is abit bochap wif my tummy cramp..mayb he tink im over kan cheong liao..heehee
i onli received the registration letter fr TMC..dr adrian's letter nt yet..nurse told me he likes to give last min..so wait lor
 
Morning ladies!

yest asked Mrs Wong at antenatal class bt tt gooey thing tt's been falling out. she knew exactly wat i's talking bt n just smiled n said it's alrite, as long as it's nt itchy, e discharge is nt bloody n i'm nt having contractions. she said it's just a bit o show (aka mucus plug) which is normal... whew! fang4 xin1 liao!
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ladies,

i'll opt 4 natural (if i can go 4 natural) w/o epidural. die die must force myself to go thru it. wat 4 suffer e long term after-effects? just suffer greatly once n get it over w since we already suffer q a bit during pregy liao. hmmmm..... i really hope i can make it...

bloom,

i scared leh. u n ur hubby r petite but me n my hubby r nt lor! so how come bb oso so small? at 28 wks, she was still above e 50th percentile leh!
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i tink if ur bb hasn't turned, sure will haf c-section lor! but i trust everything'll b alrite!
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Jackie,

ya. teaching's tough. used to fall sick at least once a mth. w/in 6 mths, i totally lost my voice twice. n u'll nv really recover cos u've to go bk n teach after 1-2 days o mc. tt's y i opt out! heh heh...

MBB,
yeah... i feel v xin fu. my hubby's letting me surf now while he watches tv at e living rm.. now still haf freedom, quickly go out liao!
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Morning ladies,
TGIF
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.....Plus yesterday have a good night rest without waking up to wee wee...Feel so fresh this morning
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Lil,
I did spoke to my gyane abt my birth plan. So am keeping the option open
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BTW, wont be attending the cordlife talk tml morning liao. Hubby and me decided to store the cord blood with stemcord.

Shihui,
Glad u got a good deal on the BB cot....At least one item of the mind hor
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Bloom,
Hmmm, both u and hubby really on the petite side. But better listen to gyane advise and monitor BB movement. I noe it sound scary but better be on the safer side hor. Take care hor

Dora,
So glad u and BB is fine now....HFMD is no joking matter especially u r now preggie. Slow down yr pace take good care
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Vanessa,
Yr contraction sound quite serious.....It is possible that since it is yr 3rd BB so will give birth early?
 
bloom

guess you didn't have protein in your urine then? just want to highlight this scary condition called pre-eclampsia that states that if BP is above 140/90 AND there is protein in urine, may have mild pre-eclampsia. Try to take things slow for a while now.
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kimi

phew! now you can fang xin already! you are worrying that bb too small, i am worrying that bb is too big! sigh! 2.1 kg at 32 weeks leh!
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plus i am small sized!
 
Jackie,
Ya lor, that's what I'm afraid too and furthermore the age gap is quite close for this. I don't remember having such cramp in this stage for my previous pregnancy.... I don't one to be the first to "Graduate"!!

dey,
Usually I will advise mother that latching on is the best stimulation method as bb will be sucking very hard, but not painful except ur uterus and bb is the best stimulator of all. If u will to use breast pump (bobian) then at least use that to stimulate, but don't feed ur bb with bottle to avoid nipple confusion, u can feed bb through cup or spoon, a little by little.
 
Bobianah,
I shortlisted gobi as one of my choice for full-month cakes..their cakes are quite cute..

Vanessa,
I see..so even if we dun hv much milk in the first few days must also latch the baby on for stimulation...
 
Kimi,
My hubby almost went to NIE as well....In the end he decided not too....Cannot imagine if he is a teacher now....Moe, school, parents and children are so demanding....

Vanessa,
I actually dont mind being the 1st to graduate but worry abt pre-term BB. I better be patient and wait for BB to give me the que
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BMSG just call to remind abt tml session, they really very on hor
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MBB,
I have already put a reminder in my mobile. Will ask during Q&A
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Morning
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so sian...wanted to sleep in but already wide awake very early
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Och,
glad tat your maid is doing well.
now you can juz spend time training her and not having to worried abt others.

i will hv GA if i opt for c sec.

Shihui,
yeah! happy tat you got your cot
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Dora,
welcome back.
glad tat you are better leh. rest more
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Talking about baby cot, I can only fix and dress up my baby cot after i delivered lor cos my MIL told my hubby not to fix up yet..think becos of some pantang reason..
 
dey,

huh? Then u will be very busy on the first day when bb is back home
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Ask ur hb to fix it up while u r in the hospital lor.... better, else hor bery messy and stressed. =p
 
Dey,
maybe ask hb to fix and you go out for awhile?
i tink you may feel abit stress leh if left undone till birth.

i dun pantang but the other day hb need to drill something, MIL made so much noise, so i went to the clubhse and wait for hb to finito lor.
 
Vanessa, MBB,
I also not pantang but since MIL said will follow lor..anyway she did it out of good for us..Most prob will ask hubby to go home and fixed up when I am still in hospital lor..

MBB,
Usually if hubby wanna drill or knock something, i will siam automatically..dun wanna kapo then he injured me..haha..
 
MBB
thanks for the link.
That day some were saying Nepia diapers good rite? What was the reason? better absorbancy for nite and cheap is it? I cannot remember...
 
Ladies,
Does anyone have info/lobang on where to engage ppl to shave BB hairs during the full month celebration? Than they will collect BB's hair can make it into a brush.

Dey, MBB,
My in-law also pantang abt hacking/drilling/fixing stuff whenever i am ard. Just close 1 eye lor
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Dey,
Agree with Vanessa, get hubby to fix when u r in the hospital. I also intent to get huuby to set-up the playpen when i am in the hospital. Otherwise gg to take up alot of space
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Bobianah,
it's supposed to be high absorbancy and resonable in price.
i am trying to get some sample coz NB and S size is not available in Isetan.
 
By the way, r u ladies buying any extra newborn diapers? I heard that hospitals will give us a pack when we delivered right? I am worried if I buy now, baby will outgrown the newborn size very fast...

Jackie,
You intend to shave all baby hair during full month? Is there a reason why we must do that during full month?
 
mbb,
thanks!

dey,
i only bot 1 more packet of newborn size (pampers) as standby. Anyway, NTUC near my place...can always send someone there to buy after bring bb home.
 
Jackie,
ooops...dun noe why i post for doggiebb instaed of you. blurrrr..
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Dey,
i have some leftover from my frens. so should not be buying NB diapers. if you are using cloth diapers, one pack is more then enough as our bb is of average size. bb will upgrade to S size very fast.
 
Dora, HFM disease? Did gynae say bb is safe from it?

choo, you actually get a new cupboard for CL har? I only reserve a small drawer cos my cupboard no space liao
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Very paiseh but no choice... small bedroom lah...

kimi, but how would one knows if the mucus plug 'finish' falling out liao? When infection sets in??? No right? You might want to check with your gynae re your bb size. Cos my gynae said the additional tests is routine for smaller size bb to make sure growih is all right. Maybe different gynae got different standards and your gynae thinks your bb is not consider smaller size loh.... but maybe I scare my gynae by asking too much questions. You are not short like me but you are quite skinny too actually.... so if bb inherit genes from you she might be skinny too....

Jackie..hahah..bet my hubby will be mad to hear people describe him as petite :p :p :p

doggiebb, took my usual urine tet yesterday but they didn't mention that there is protein in urine. So pre-eclampsia will always come with protein in urine?

dey, alamat..like that so last minute then you all have to panic to set the cot up before the bb comes back.. so no fun if you have to 'disappear' while your hubby set it up!

BTW, that day some of you are talking about the private cord bank paying the gynae to extract the cord blood. What happen if its donating to the public cord bank? Will the public cord bank pays the gynae or gynae will have to waive the charges or get it from us?
 
Bobianah,
Thats my intention too..dun want to stock up now then end up with excess cos baby too big or outgrown them very fast..moreover I am using cotton diapers during day time..
 
MBB,
It me not doggiebb
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Dey,
It some kind of tradition plus shaving everything off also ensure that BB's hair will grow nicer in the future. Personally i dont like cause botak not cute.....
 
dora,
thank goodness u r ok! d take care.

vanessa,
u tried all the various pain relief methods? which is most effective?

shihui,
so is the cot in ur mil's home already? :p

mbb, shihui,
the last one was really rock bottom though, so i dunno if i'm just happy that this one isn't at the rock bottom. :p yesterday offered my maid some satay n she told me she wants to diet.
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i told her she better dun diet, else if she falls ill when bb comes, i'm going to be really mad.

bloom,
ur hubby is v. lightweight, lighter than me! but i'm sure he's v. macho. :p

not all petite parents hv v. small babies. my friend who just delivered a 3.2kg bb is v. petite too, n so is her husband. her bb was only 1+kg at 28 wks, but in the last month, gained 500g each wk. i was reading motherhood magazine yesterday, seems like high blood pressure, infections (must eat antibiotics :p) n sometimes, gestational diabetes, can slow down bb's growth in the uterus. (i'm a bit confused, cos i always thot gestational diabetes will cause excessive growth.) but anyway, i think 1.4kg still a bit small for now, maybe wait a few more wks b4 u decide if u should induce.

karenp,
of all the drugs used in childbirth pain relief, narcotics r the only class that can be taken over long term. it is known to be v. good at numbing the perception of pain. all the pain relief methods hv their own side effects, some affecting us, some crossing the placenta to the bb, so i think it's really up to each of us to choose what we want.

choo,
i tried drinking coconut at wk 35. it's quite potent for me!

dey,
maybe u ask ur hubby to fix it up while u r in the hospital, else where is bb going to sleep when mother n bb r discharged?
 
Hihi! yeah! it's fri... last night dunnoe y.. had bad headache.. eat panadol go sleep oso wake up with headache...
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too bad i got to go back feed my cells.. so now resting at home first n go back work in the afternoon..

got leg cramp this morning.. so painful... was screaming... now wondering how i can be cool n relax during my contraction pain.. :p am i being too bu4 zi4 liang4 li4 for wanting to go without epidural.. heeee~~~ :p

dey,
my in laws oso pantang abt assembling cot while me still preg.. but hubby "ti kee" lor.. want things done his way.. his parents no choice.. but i siam while the delivery man assemble lor.. hide in the living room while he assemble in the bedroom... done liao den i go inspect.. :p

the cake is so cute...
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but very ex leh...
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Dora,
aiyo.. scary leh.. HFMD.. but how come u r exposed to this virus? do u work in childcare sector etc? luckily both u n bb okie...
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better take care now...
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kimi,
ohhh... so it's really bits of mucuz plug? shdn't be a big worry bah.. since mucus plug can drop weeks before labour starts..
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as long as no contraction/dilation etc okie liao lah...
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Vanessa,
ur contraction sounds serious leh.. is it very frequent? muz take care leh.. hopefully the gynae will give u MC.. den it's a wish fulfilled liao... heee~ :p

Jackie,
i chance upon this website in some other forum.. :p u may want to take a look...
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http://www.taimaobi.com/TaiMaobi-E.htm
 


Jackie,
ya lor..shave all away like so ke xi..especially if the hair is so soft and nice at birth..then if ger ger, shave all away so sad..botak like a boy..
 

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