Sorry gals no time to update u gals last night, not a VERY BIG UPDATE lah, but a BIG CHANGE for me that y i so excited and u gals also excited. I have told Esther thru sms and thks esther to pass the message.
Jo, u can go to Japan in peace if liao. O course I not preggy, not the right time yet.
Really thank you u gals for your wishes.
Given my one more notice, my new lifestyle that I am SO looking forward will only start in 2nd May. R will still be infant care till end of April as I also need to give one mth notice and one month school fees in order to take back my $550 deposit.
As my previous manager had left to a better place and a higher position, she has offered me a better post and higher pay to me. If not for her, I will not find job and stick to here. Agree that I have to move on in order to improve myself. This opportunity is hard to come back and I am afraid that I will regret in future if I reject.
I hesitate for so long cos of R. I promise my mom to let her care for her for 9mths as I will be no longer working here, no point putting her here as the infant care is only cheap for staff and not convenient. When my mum take over her duties, she will be 7.5mths plus and she can be enroll in playgroup when she is 17mths plus ++ at my house downstairs NTUC center.
At least now I do not have to rush home daily to cook porridge, bath and make her sleep. In future, after work I can fetch her after her dinner and I can also work in peace and even put in OT if required.
My debt is almost clear liao in 1-2 mths time and have terminated all my credit cards, except one to keep. So now I only use cash to stop my spending habits. Sign.that is why I never buy cloths for myself after giving birth. I admit I hardly buy anything for R, everthing hands down one. After this 1-2mths time, I am confident to save enough money and like Esther can be a rich SAHM in future.
