Hi Kelly,
A bit tricky here, sounds like you may have to restart the weaning process patiently and slowly and back to the basic. How much milk and at what intervals is Ed drinking? And, abt the spoon, you think he has a phobia/wrong idea of spoon? If you put bites on the spoon to feed him, does he eat them?
Dont stress yourself too much into cooking a variety of food. Sometimes, the more effort we put in to cook, the more eager we want the baby to eat, the more stress we get when the baby is not eating. Start with the basic first such as giving him fruit puree, then cereal with vegetable, adjust his feeding a bit to make him a bit more hungry during lunch, let him drink water then try to feed again. Its not going to be easy, you really need a lot of patience especially now since we cannot single out why Ed is not eating whether its the variety, the habit, timing, etc.
butter8 & kelly,
Let me go through the gymboree schedule first (its at home) and propose the timing again but not this weekend for me as weather seems a bit bad and flu virus out in the wide open.
My Gyms waddler class is more suitable when baby starts to walk. Now you can bring Ryan there for the Tiny Tikes programme