wanli,
thks 4 e info. let me know abt e details after u meet e coordinator.
augbb,
i come across tube bras wif no wire but it was a long time ago n i dunno where 2 find them now.
wait til u give birth then u'll know if u r determined abt BFg. for me, i m very determined abt BFg so i went ahead 2 buy those unglam, not-stylish-at-all, boring nuring tops. i didnt buy many, just 4 simple tops for me 2 wear them out.
i BF anywhere, anytime. if u r talking abt nursing rooms, u can find them if u can tell when ur bb needs 2 drink milk (nursed). if ur bb is e sort who wails, cries nonstop n needs 2 b nursed ASAP, u wont bother 2 find such nursing rooms. u just 1 2 shut ur bb up n BF ur bb on e spot.
for me, i BF at cafes, restaurants, hotel lobbies, airport, taxis, shopping centres (while sitting around), inside friens' cars, practically anywhere. in e beginning, when i didnt hv any nursing top, i had 2 hunt for nursing room. there was once e shopping ctr i was at, dun hv nursing room (i tik it's Lucky Plaza), i had no choice but 2 bring my son 2 e toilet. Yikes! it was a terrible experience. After tat, I went straight 2 MIM, bought 4 tops at a go n I BF anywhere since then.
If u really dun like BFg in public, bring EBM out but make sure ur EBM stays chilled. I come across a GF who also brings her Avent breastpump out so she pumps & feed her girl (her girl dun latch on well so no choice, gotta feed EBM).
Once u discover e ease & joy of BFg (i'm sure ur husband wont mind it too), u wont mind wearing those nursing tops. I even bought nice lacy nursing bras so I feel betta than wearing those plain boring beige-colored nursing bras.
Btw, if i not wrong, nursing tops do come in spaghetti design too. Check out MIM n other website selling nursing tops.
FYI, husband was very grouchy when i stopped BFg. e hassle of making FM, bringing hot water out, etc is too much. When I 1st stopped BFg, my son bawled so badly tat husband had 2 stop on expressways or by e road a few times 2 make FM. Once, we didnt bring hot water out cos we tot we shld b at a shopping ctr or eating outlet (where we can get hot water) by e time my son wanna drink. No, we were wrong. my son screamed, bawled so badly tat husband stopped at a petrol kiosk n got hot water 2 make milk. Ley chey!
(pardon me 4 my long post...not intending 2 stress tat BFg is a MUST or very gd...just sharing my experience)