(2006/07) JULY 2006 MTB

YT - no worries at all. We are at all ears. If yr BIL can ask his wife to go own house to stay that means he knows the seriousness of it. Then why stil want to risk other ppl? Is it call plain selfishness? Family dinner? Dont u all have it often? Why must insist yr hubby to go and get angry? sorry to ask, yr FIL v old lioa? Even if its not Jayden's Bday, Jayden shld also avoid at all cost... no joke for bb at this age to have ckn pox, who suffer? BB and mummy!

Sometimes I cant help to think men are abit brainless when it comes it this kind of things. My BIL is a very insensitive guy and often 'offend' me when i was staying with him. Im so glad that he's away from me now. Yr hubby the same as mine value his own family, but i think he wont risk his son's health in this instance.

Preg with ckn pox must be v careful coz foetus also will be having it..but if due care shld be alright. My cousin IL also had it, bb come out alright.
 


PM, thank you so much! FYI, my BIL always scold my FIL but this time he INSIST going out for dinner to celebrate father's day. I dun understand why lor. Sorry to say bb is more important or father's day? I already ask my hb to give red packet n tell him to explain to his dad but wat to do my hb is 24 xiao son and he always felt i m selfish. In-law side are always not understanding at all. FIL is 60 yrs old liao. He also dun understand. Kept asking me to feed Jayden cold can drink.

I dunno. Just spoke to hb, he seems to understand next wkend me & jayden might be staying over at my mum hse but he is always fickle minded so dunno if next wk his family coax him wat will happen again.
 
aiyo YT, i think u are right to bring Jayden to your mum's place. If they are so inconsiderate, its better that u take the necessary precautions. As a mom, its our natural instinct to protect our children!
Do what is Best for Jayden!
Just pray that ur hb will understand!
 
YT,
stay away from chicken pox!! read from somewhere that chicken pox in very young kids may be detrimental..
 
YT,

sounds like u gg thru a tough period...

be strong! do what a mummy do best for bb ya...
yet go ez on hubby lor....

go go!!
=)
 
ylc, ep & angi wee,

Thank you...Now I totally hack care what my in law will think/feel...Its my own baby so me as his mum I have the right to protect him in any way...My in-law are always inconsiderate...

For example: Insist feeding tibits to my son although I kept saying NO because me & my mum at home dun anyhow feed Jayden with biscuits, etc but they insist. Its not that we dun let Jayden eat but if eat more of this tibits some bb won't want to drink milk/porridge anymore. Since now he is young if we could control we will control once he is old enough its beyond our control but MIL always feed him when I didn't notice. Got once she insist letting Jayden hold an apple whereby I say I feed him because Jayden will use his teeth to 'pull' the apple and it will come out one big piece. MIL dun believe me so took the chance when I was on the phone she give Jayden. Truth enough Jayden got CHOKE!

I always told my hubby I swear that I will never leave Jayden alone with any of your family members. Got once my niece had fever so when to see GP. Maybe after taking the medicine got rashes so I ask MIL if she have bring my niece back to see doctor. Guess what is her reply??? No car to send her!!! Omg! You have a maid at home, can't you ask the maid along & take a cab.

As 3rd SIL (MIL own daughter) is working in china so her bb is looking after by MIL, got once 3rd BIL want to bring their bb to leave permanetly in China. MIL insist NO and guess what? Usually every nite they will online and use webcam to see their bb. MIL in the living room shout to them. Ur bb sleep liao but the truth is NO. My niece is still playing around.

Who is she to have the right to stop their own parents from seeing their bb? From that incident onwards, I told hb no no no no way to let your mum look after even for an hr. Later I return home, ur mum suddenly siao dun want to return my son to me.
 
Happy Belated Birthday to Zavier! Sorree for belated greetings...hubby hogged the computer for his assignment over the weekend.

YT: Take care ah. Chickenpox no fun for babies (and adults) leh. Better to be safe.
 
YT
Wah, chic pox le! don't play play. should have all means to keep your bb away from all these selfish ppl.
It's a pain when you have all the ILs or relatives interfering in your life. Worse part is your own hb thinking that whatever they do is the right thing and own wife side is always "not understanding". I have gfs encountering this kind of shitty thing also. Luckily my hb is the one that No means No. I am more soft-hearted one. He hates whoever interfering our plans including his own parents. So no one dares to even feed a "gua-chi" to my bb.
I wish all the bad thing for you will be over soon. Don't let it get onto you! You can always flood your anger or frustration here and let us sayang you =)
 
YT - sayang... stay on n protect Jayden in wat u deem fit. We are their mothers... call me double standard, but watever I say/do is the final decision! :p

CHM - got ur harness
Hong - got only 3 items for u. the hammer is sold out, n aquashoes for boy failed my QC. :p

So how would you gals like to collect? Somerset/punggol or another other location (can be arrange)
 
Zavier, Happy Belated Birthday! Hope u get well soon.

Dsii, Ian better liao?

YT
In laws are like that! Just stand firm for the sake of ur baby's health. For me, if I think my son's health is being threatened, I'll get 'evidence' from internet and show it to my hubby to let him know the consequnces and seriousness.
 
MTDT, thanks!

You free for lunch on Thu at Somerset? I can take a train from Tanjong Pagar to meet you. If not free, I pick up from you on Fri at Somerset (I'm on leave, but running errands all over, so probably need to fix time only on that day)

Can PM me your account and the amount? I transfer the money to you first.
 
YT, I understand ur situation... sometimes in laws side r ridiculous n unreasonable one but it's a fact that we can't change...

like I wanted to celebrate Char's birthday on 28th (her actual is 31st), guess what my sil says... why can't we celebrate earlier? cos she's gg holiday during that time... I told my hb to ignore her cos that's a ridiculous request... then on sat my mil ask us to feed char with vege but the vege is soak with sauce, luckily hb insisted NO cos too much salt already...
 
MTDT,

OK thanks..
The ger shoes ok?

YT,
u may wanna check out if Jayden can take Chicken pox jab now since he is near to 1yo.

I heard the virus tend to pass when the pox is drying up.
 
yenny
still s bit feverish bah...but he is oso down with flu n cough...will bring to see PD to get medication...for his flu n cough bah...
 
dsii
if ian allergic to western medicine, can bring him to see tcm sinseh. but go to the more established one like 'yu ren sheng' which has a clinic in tiong bahru plaza,5th floor.
 
YT - huh.. i think it's so selfish of them to go out when have chickenpox. all the unsuspecting n innocent people may get it... wah.. seriously so selfish leh.. i'd be fuming mad like u! not only for insisting that u n jayden go for dinner but going out in the first place!

more info on chickenpox:
http://www.hpb.gov.sg/hpb/default.asp?pg_id=865&aid=183

more importantly this part:
Complications:
These are some of the possible complications which can affect a person who gets chickenpox:

* Skin infection such as sores becoming more red, swollen, or tender
* Dehydration due to frequent vomiting or refusal to drink. The person will pass urine less often, feel drowsy, have a dry mouth and lips, and be very thirsty.
* Brain damage from encephalitis, which may present with severe headache, stiff neck and back, confusion, irritability,or excessive drowsiness
* Pneumonia characterised by coughing, wheezing, breathing difficulty, and chest pain
* Arthritis characterised by joint pain, stiffness and swelling.

While chickenpox is common and harmless to most people, it may have an adverse impact on those whose immune systems are impaired (e.g. newborn infants , persons who are on chemotherapy for cancer, persons with AIDS, or persons who take steroids like cortisone or prednisone). People with impaired immune systems may experience serious complications or even death.

Chickenpox can also give rise to more severe problems in pregnant women, causing stillbirths or birth defects, and can spread to their babies during childbirth.
 
wah peach..very informative leh...hehehe....YT show the link to ur hb...ask him to read line by line carefully...get these info into his head...
 
Jshoppers Spree

Bill is here.. thus this is the breakdown
<table border=1><tr><td>Fruitee</TD><TD>Jshoppers</TD><TD> $14.10 </TD></TR><TR><TD>Missmoon</TD><TD>Jshoppers</TD><TD> $14.10 </TD></TR><TR><TD>Peachsorbet</TD><TD>Jshoppers</TD><TD> $61.68 </TD></TR><TR><TD>Lollypop</TD><TD>Jshoppers</TD><TD> $14.10 </TD></TR><TR><TD>Mezzo17</TD><TD>Jshoppers</TD><TD> $14.10 </TD></TR><TR><TD>Branmbles</TD><TD>Jshoppers</TD><TD> $37.25 </TD></TR><TR><TD>Blessings</TD><TD>Jshoppers</TD><TD> $14.10 </TD></TR><TR><TD>YB</TD><TD>Jshoppers</TD><TD> $14.10 </TD></TR><TR><TD>Kiki</TD><TD>Jshoppers</TD><TD> $14.10 </TD></TR><TR><TD>Celestine</TD><TD>Jshoppers</TD><TD> $14.10 </TD></TR><TR><TD>Dsiitan</TD><TD>Jshoppers</TD><TD> $52.36 </TD></TR><TR><TD></td></tr></table>

Transfer to POSB SAVINGS: 096-09685-2

Thank you
 
Hong & CHM - sorry, left the receipt at home. tomolo then update u.

Hong - the gal shoes, i choose the "best" pair liao. haha... pass my QC lah.. hope also pass ur QC. :p

Dsii - aiyoh, Ian also down... wish him speedy recovery.
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mtdt
ya loh...haiz...

blessings..thks...still slight feverish loh...but now he is playing..so think he is still asa ctive as b4..so not that worried..hehe
 
ooh.. pretty cute ashley party pic is UP!!!!

The cake is yummy... rich brownie cake!
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Agar agar - as usual yummy (finally hv a chance to eat a BIG Pc as I din get a chance to eat during zav's party haha)

Mezzo - why dun hv couple pic for zav & Ash!! :p
 
Mezzo,
Glad's cakes look nice and pretty!

The top layer of the cake is made of marzipan? Sweet? How much did u pay for the cake?
 
Happy bdayy to Ashley..

MTDT..ohoh.. I wanna see bday picture mah.hahhaa..

Mummies, rbr to post ur bday link or picture here hor.
 
Hi Mummies,

Thanks for all your support. Feeling much better now. Hopefully no more war these wkends. Now I hate wkends bcoz every week sure got prob.

Hi peachsorbet,

Thanks for your article. Will show to my 24 xiao hubby tonite.
 
YT,

I can understand how frustrated you are. Last time my SIL's whole family got fever and serve flu and cough, I also feel the same thing when my MIL ask them to come over to my house soon after their recovery. The virus is highly contagious when one is going to recover.

Guess wat, as soon after they left my house, hubby already feel something unusual and 2 days later down with high fever, and then followed by BB alfred and me.

It's not your fault to take such a move to prevent any means of getting infected by the CP virus. Maybe L* is too kind to help his B&W. But I do feel that L* shouldn't scold you with such remarks, you're his capable wife to take care of his son and family afterall.

If you need more place for shelter, do come to my place. Do let me know if you need help.

Mezzo,

Happy Birthday to Ashley! I ordered the same agar-agar from Mrs Chan. Hopefully it will turn out nice like yours. The cake looks yummy leh!
 
Hi all,
Glad didnt tell me how heavy the cake was.Only told me the size. Bottom tier is 8 inch and top tier is 6 inch. Cost me $150. For those ordering pooh bear agar agar, for girls can tell James to customise to pink as oppose to blue.
 
YT,
I's very irresponsible of ur BIL & his wife to go out & mingle wif people when they're having chicken pox. Don't they know it's very contagious? Somemore Jayden is still so young!

Even when our bbs are down wif flu, we also don't dare to bring them. What's more chicken pox. Ur BIL & his wife are all adults & they should be more responsible lor.

Like you, I'll be very very angry if my hb still continue to mix wif them & bring the virus back home.

Mayb u wanna show ur hb the articles u've read abt chicken pox? Mayb he'll be more willing to accept then?
 
MTDT,
Transferred money to ur account already. Transaction No.: 1223274748. Pls check.

Ylc,
I've also transferred the money for b'day direct stuff to ur acct. Transaction No.: 1223277138. Pls check.
 
Dear Mummies,
Thks for all the nice birthday wishes. Ashely's actual birthday is tomorrow 19th June. Pre-celebrated her bdae on Sat...:p
 
Hong - wan to see pics huh? Now with this table, we noe who to chase for pics on every monday! hahaha

wow... all mummies must be stress now!! *lucky mine is over* hahaha

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ashley has got a lovely cake, mezzo! it's gorgeous
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mtdt - transaction ref: 100000738411738, have transferred $61.68 over. via UOB ibank so shld reflect by thursday.

YT - cheer up. maybe they're just ignorant or don't know that chickenpox can be so dangerous. sometimes... adults don't know any better. show d article to ur hubby, then he'll realize that u're not just being paranoid/over-cautious but actually have a good reason to worry. *hugs*
 

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