Mums, pls let me rant again can??? Sigh!! Sorry....
As u already read I moved in on Sun, inevitably I need helpers to help me move, if not look after Emerson. Natuarally the person that I looked for is my MIL.
On Sun morning, I told her abt it... but she has wedding dinner to attend at night and I need to take over from there. I'm ok with it...So she help me look after him from like 3pm to 6pm. Coz it was raining heavily and the movers were late, so I was at home and literally I was the one looking after the boy. Never mind abt the short hours.
Come Mon, common sense will tell u that I haven finished unpacking.. in fact I just took out those necessary stuff only. So I called MIL in the morning and brought E over. She then said she wants to play Mahjong and already made arrangements liao. She suggested my SIL no 3 to help me. SIL 3 was ok with it but she need to cook porridge for her son first. Told MIL feeding time is 1.pm and rush off liao. SIL 4 (the one that I will babysit for) and her hubby at home.
At 1.30pm, SIL 3 called me and said nobody ans her door when she went to my MIL place... she said she heard E crying very loudly so she come down even her porridge not cooked yet. When she went into the room, E was struggling alone in the hamrock... no traces of MIL or anyone helping him. SIL 4 was carrying her daughter and hubby is sleeping.
I was very very very mad. My MIL actually went out when E was sleeping and didnt even to feed him milk before she left. Of coz he be crying out loudly right? What if he fell down from the hamrock? Who's going to be responsible for that? SIL 4 was in her own room. Given her actions, how do u think I will look after her daughter in future? I was really mad loh. My poor boy is deprieve of milk and sleep coz of my BIL again!!! Damn! I hate the fact that my MIL thinks its her holiday after we moved and went to play MJ... she's like so easy grandma loh.. i am not expecting u to help me move, never mind u dont hav the initiate to help me with E or move, but when I ask for yr help, dont u feel obliged to?????
Tues - She came over in the morning, I haven eaten anything yet. She asked me what I wanna TREAT her with since she came to my house and Im the host. I told her there are cartons, if u are hungry u can eat them! So pissed! There's only plain water and some milk powder at that moment ok? Then she saiy.... Oh i thought u finish packing liao, as she pierced into each and every room to strutinised every details. U thought I am wonder woman arh, look after bb, buy my own food and unpack 30 cartons! Her face changed and disappear from my house.
Came over at night again with my SIL 4 daughter coz she was crying so much and loudly that nobody can handle her. Stayed over til 3 am + and I haven sleep til then.......
Irritating bunch of ppl!