okipoki,
i try to be politically correct also cause i'm daughter in law. don't want to cause any tension. if i can express fluently in chinese then it'll be easier to communicate on my preference in taking care of baby.
kite,
i understand how tired u are on BF.i'm like u doing the same, pump 3 times at work, come back latch immediately,dinner shower then time for 2nd latch before baby sleep.now my hubby take over sterilize bottles and put baby to sleep (if i doze off before baby) else will pengsan. then morning wake up 5.30am to pump and latch, wash up bottles etc then to work. jia yu... must not give up ah...
msnanas,
these days baby also like to suckle me as human pacifier. i'll pull away and give him pacifier while holding him in breastfeeding position so he can cuddle longer.
spicegal,
$300 for oto trimax should be cheaper than slimming centre. slimming centre shall be last resort, but wonder if they flatten flabby tummies. then again, i've not done a strict exercise routine yet but still talk about all this external ways to trim tummy, shame on me huh..
but so tired from BF, think kite will agree with me that i'll doze off when do sit up...