tinklebell, kk, thanks for your advice. yes, i also prefer to let bb come out on his own. maybe will inform gynae when i see her on 15th (wk 37). will see her again on 22nd (wk 38) before she goes.
who knows, bb can wait for her to come back, which means he can only come out after 1 June (week 39 4 days).
re the cramps, as i only experience it on my left side, i think should not worry too much bah. see tonight better anot. just checked with my fren, she said possibly could be bb sleeping on one of my pulsating nerves, hence the cramp on one side.
will monitor lor...