thanks so much for all the warm welcome.
I was in the u.s when I got preggie. Was in boise, Idaho (where even the birds dont lay eggs). Haha..it was really too boring for city ppl like me and my hubby. This baby was an unplanned one for us. We always joked that its because boise was so boring there was nothing to do but.

Came back after first tri cos I was so sick when I was there and I so missed the food here. I could still remember the posts u guys made over the mee rebus, the chicken rice and the tonic soup Wa raos, I was sick with envy and ms!! Haha..kept alternating between salivating and vomiting while I read the posts.
Actually, I had a really hard time bfg cos I have the wrist condition some of u gals mentioned. It was excruciating to hold the baby and bf for a protracted period of time. My back was also killing me. Maybe Im not very maternal, but I find bfg to be a very stressful and sweaty experience..hahamaybe Im scared of failing. pretty envious of u gals who are bfg well. The kind of closeness and the bond forged with baby is pretty awesome hor. I see some mummies outside bf very gracefully, but me hor, aiyoh!! Haha..during my confinement, I kept sweating. Think my baby had salty milk. Then decided to switch to pumping exclusively lor...less painful and demoralizing for me and more satisfying for the baby bah..haha..
I used to think of giving up pumping everytime Im doing it. Its just so xin ku. Whenever pump already, wash the equipment, play with the baby for a while, then need to pump again!! My life revolved ard that pumping machine man! But when I read of you gals perseverance, I will push myself to continue. My tobey thanks all the bfg mummies who shared their difficulties. If not, this mummy would have given up long ago and he would not have any fresh milk!
My baby was born on 24th june, so hes abt 5.5 mths? Btw, Michele, am glad that ur son is growing well!! So happy to hear that. Cant imagine the worries u must have had. I used to be very easygoing. But after being preggie and having a baby, I worry about everything to the point of paranoia man. Are u guys like that?
Amy,
Im not a sahm. I dunno how the sahms do it le. I was taking care of the baby myself during the 2nd mth after I sent my maid from hell back to phillipines for like 7 wks, I nearly K.Oed from it man. Some more my dad still help me take care of the baby in the afternoon and my mom help me bathe the baby in the morn le!! I really cannot make it man. And I kept having fever for 3 wks consecutive! Wah biang! And I only have 1 kid le! I cant believe myself man!! Haha..u guys are really amazing!