fates,
if yr mil did so, thats mean she didnt mind or cannot blame on you if anything happend.
1 of my colleague, kena blamed by her in law when she had miscarriage for her 1st one.. stated that she attended a wedding then crash with e pregrancy..
1 of my ex colleague oso blamed by her in law when she lost her baby at week 38, stated that my colleague was stubborn to set e bed b4 baby came out..
Really, i believe up to individual to believe or to think is it taboo or not. What i heard even two stories. 1 stated that can set up the cot bed only after 6th mth pregancy, the other set up after delivery..
for me, i just sat at the living room when i got my hubby to help me to despatch 1 single bed n move to my own hse and when he set up the cot bed.. i count myself lucky cos i didnt stay with my mil now..
However, she still call to check on me whether do i go for massage.. cos she thinks that baby's head will be square instead of round shape due to the massage.. the pressing ... hahah