Hi mummies,.
Long time no read and really got a lot to ready like Suprise from HB, Childcare, BB studies, Golden pig and AGAIN MIL problem.
Rena,..
Take care and dont think too much ,....
Is Elijah ok?
RE: Suprise or present from HB
My SIL got present from her hb last year is SOO KEE Briliant Rose... we all happy that her husband treat her good. He done a lot thing and help her a lot.
And for me,...I dont mind to have suprise from HB
, he did give me a shock on our annivesary.
He asked the florist shop sent flower to my office.. that really suprise me. This time he give me a big suprise. Previously he strike 4D for 2 times.
For the 1st time is thirdprize and collect cash..at the time I collect on behalf of him as he was on business trip..after collection, I banking to his account. And the second time hb strike 4D at 2ndprize and this time is unbelievable,..he also in oversea for business trip and this time is not collect CASH but collect CHEQUE..quite a good amount. Same..I have to collect on behalf on him and the cheque is written under my name. After 1 mth ..when I mentioned to him that I want to transfer back all the money to him...He reply me.."I did not want you to transfer back to me and you may keep it and give it to you",....SIGH and I super blur already.I dont know what to said..
But anyway I will keep it and save as rainy day.
RE: Studies.
I hear a lot people said that if want to send children to good school must really do volunter work at the school like wash toilet etc...Am I right? As I'm PR here so I do not know how the school work out. But for Gracie..luckyly my hb is from AI TONG primary school and MIL is from Raffles school..think should not be a problem ....
Really can't imagine if I wash toilet at the school.
RE: MIL problem
MIL has never got attitude that scold me if my hb do housework but not me.
But this really happened on yesterday night. She saw my hb wash dish for me and she asked me not to let my hb wash dish as he was super busyman with work and project..I should do it myself. I was stunt cos REALLY UNBELIEVABLE this sentence come out from her mouth. As me always busy for housework till 12:00am midnite. And hb sometime will help up for wash bb milk bottle or hang those wash clothing. Last nite is bcos HB was eating very slow..as I need to go room with Gracie and once she sleep I can do my work. HB known and help up.
So I just ignore her with a smilling face,,,,and straight away walk to my room. But she really cant stand with me and came to my room with telling me that my hb is super busyman. Too Bad..I AM A THICK SKIN Person and no feeling with her word. I fight back in a nice way .."I know mummy and we know what we do and we got a planning for our work. And you do not need to worry that" SIGN she keep quiet with a black face and go to the kitchen. At the time I am not sitting but I clean my room and wardrobe.
I told hb this and hb ask me to ignore MIL as she not understand us,,,,and hb told me ..actually MIL should be great that we help each other .
Hi May
MIL also ever said this in front of Gracie, me and hb. She said "your mummy no use" at the time Gracie was cries bcos want me to carry her. Oh my god....she said that in front of my daughter...I also fight back straight away to her in front of every body...."Mummy how can you said this in front of her..you teach her that she got a useless mummy and also someting which is wrong. You are her Grandma how can you teach her, if in the other way when my hb said you are useless..how is your feeling" She keep queit and said she not mean to said that only a joke..HB follow up " How can you said this a joke is not a joke..you are big enough to diferentiate what is joke " after that she did not repeat this mistake again till now and really is a wake up lesson for her.
She also will said this to Gracie that I dont like Gracie to eat orange but is not her. At the time Gracie got phlem that is the reason I dun want her to take that. I admit in front of Gracie and tell her YES ,..bcos you are sick and mummy will give you once you recover. Grandma let you know this and now mummy turn to explain to you. Although I do not know Gracie understand or not but I think I done the right thing.
I look at MIL and she dare not to said anything and fell paiseh to me. Sometime is really trouble us as have this type of MIL. I choose this way to explain to Gracie and admit that I not allow her to eat that. I have face a lot of thing and has to come out with a solution to overcome this.
I hope in future if GOD bless me a son...I wish I will not be a unreasonable MIL.
