Cindy
I think your mum need time and also TLC. I also agree that your mum could be insecure or maybe even think u love your hb more than her.
Mum is also our very loved one. thats why u are very torn....judging from the comment she made...I think the soft approach might work better on her rite noe.
Just give her more TLC, let her know that no matter what u are her daughter and nothing will change.
Tell her... Lucas need a company or else he will be very lonely along the way he grew up.
Just let her think that u are doing it for lucas... hope it will pacify her abit.
hang in there.. we are here for you.
Rena
Poor Elijah....hope he get well soon and you too take care.
I have a PD friend, he used to be head of NUH child A &E... he has once told me, there are reseach proven, giving a child spotless enviornment might not be the best after all.
He has 3 children and his wife SAHM too.. so he told his wife it's ok that the house has a bit dust, the kids need dust to grow up. But that is not an excuse for not mopping the floor for 1 month
So dun be too hard on yourself...
I know Elijah has sensitive nose... give him some time to adjust too.
hoe he get well soon.
I think your mum need time and also TLC. I also agree that your mum could be insecure or maybe even think u love your hb more than her.
Mum is also our very loved one. thats why u are very torn....judging from the comment she made...I think the soft approach might work better on her rite noe.
Just give her more TLC, let her know that no matter what u are her daughter and nothing will change.
Tell her... Lucas need a company or else he will be very lonely along the way he grew up.
Just let her think that u are doing it for lucas... hope it will pacify her abit.
hang in there.. we are here for you.
Rena
Poor Elijah....hope he get well soon and you too take care.
I have a PD friend, he used to be head of NUH child A &E... he has once told me, there are reseach proven, giving a child spotless enviornment might not be the best after all.
He has 3 children and his wife SAHM too.. so he told his wife it's ok that the house has a bit dust, the kids need dust to grow up. But that is not an excuse for not mopping the floor for 1 month
So dun be too hard on yourself...
I know Elijah has sensitive nose... give him some time to adjust too.
hoe he get well soon.