Queen,
No, It does not make you a bad mother. Haha! Makes me a more emotional mother? Haha
SY/Yuki,
I started 3 weeks before I returned to work. What I did was feed him slightly more during the last nite feed. Somehow, it worked out as in he slept thru. Then I con't the routine thereafter. He will sleep betwn 11pm-12am & wake up btwn 6am-6.30am. It's easy for me on Mon-Wed cos my mum stays with me. I will get up, bathe & dress-up b4 feeding/playing with him. Then, I will pass him to my mum when I leave for work. On these 3 days, at least my mum is around shd he oversleep his usual waking-up time. On Thu-Fri, he will go to my PIL's hse which is an intersection away. This morning, I had to wake him up at 7am to bathe & feed him b4 sending him over this morning.
Cookie,
So far, I hand carried him for all my walks. He will look around & talk to the birds during the morning walks. For the night walks, he will fall asleep after a short distance. I will still carry on the usual route. If I get tired (cos he's a load now!), I will sit on the benches at the garden for a while before resuming the walks. He will wake up when I step into the house. If I go with the stroller, he can't really see much lying in there. On top of that, if he frets, will have to carry him & push stroller. As a result, I decide hand-carrying him is a better option.
SSF,
Yep, the weather lately is hot hot hot! A short evening walk shd be good enough. When we started the walks, it was just Cephas & I. HB saw that we enjoyed ourselves becos I will update him of what Cephas did during the walks. He also decided to join in during the weekend mornings.