Hi Mommies,
same as Queen, I wouldnt mind putting S into a neighbourhood school if the reputation is not too bad, doesnt have to be the best, but have to have kids who are generally well behaved as well. My neighbour used to go to different schools to teach life sciences, and she tells me about how some neighbourhood schools have students who may not be the brightest, but have sterling characters, and how other top schools have snobs... so research is important. Same here, I'm thinking of putting S nearby but also afraid we probably won't get in if we have to wait till 2C, so I'm opting the easy way out and just sending S to my school... my hb initially put up a resistence coz he wanted S to go to a catholic school, but after seeing how competitive it is to get places, he also feels better chance of using alma mater to get in.
BTW, does anyone know which school is St Michael's affiliated with? My hb studied there, but he has no idea whether S will get priority to any school, e.g. CHIJ, since she is a girl and St. Mich only accepts boys...
MAshy, Yuki,
wah, same here. My MIL was super resistent on putting up grilles coz she felt that it will spoil the view from our house, but I was also super INSISTENT that we put up grilles. Have heard enough stories of children falling from windows. Sometimes I have to fight to make our place more child safe, such as Magic seal mosquito screens etc, coz my hb and MIL always worry about asthetics of the house, but I dun care while my child's safety is concerned
They can decide other stuff like what colour or type of sofa to get, lights, etc, doesn't bother me...
KY,
when I was talking to my hb's cousin at that time, the thought of sending s to Pri hadn't occurred to me, so I didnt really bother to probe, haha... will ask her more the next time I see her.