hi all
didn't log on last few days and had to do selective reading..
thanks for all your advise and comforting words
I think my post natal blues kicking in cos I feel so weepy these 2 days..
I just dun feel good abt myself..so weepy and tears..
re: Wakey baby at nite
My baby has been extra hungry at night I feel.. she has been waking up every 2 hrs for food even tho now I supplement her with 30ml FM to clear her jaundice...
my HB say she is ferocious eater.
the waking up is still ok to deal with...
It's my SORE nipple that killing me...
I even had tok of not latching on direct and pump... but feel very guilty what if my milk not establish and this will reduce my milk production rite?
Now I feel so frightful when come to feeding time.
re: BF position
durainlover/sleeping deer
sorry I forgot who reply me...anyway ya my bb is big also.. so far football hold is ok but if she get taller then maybe will be obstructed.
then when I do football hold... my MIL comment again say the position no good for her etc... I want to struggle her ley...
keep ask me to try cradle... I mean if I can I will do it.
Cradle postion also better no need so many pillow for support...
but my baby struggle alot with cradle.. I'm still trying to find the best position.
Re: Sore Nipple
I know this topic I already complaint before... but any good advise to heal the sore nipple? cos before that I apply EBM on the nipple later it will form a "dry skin" on the nipple and stick to my bra then when I remove it will tear and the sore or crack will become raw again..
I learn from kriss to buy the nipple protector and wear it now... tho it's better but I can feel the pain now when I typing..
pple always told me my baby latch correctly.. but why it still hurt so badly? will this soreness really go away?
I'm on the verge to give up direct latch on... it's only my 8 days
re: baby angel in day... cranky at nite
My baby is good in the day... sleep well and long, eat well, cry less but when come to nite
she is cranky ley... wake up often for feed, even on FM..
HELP... is this normal?
re: carrying baby
tell me abt this.. actually I also jealous when my MIL coax my bb when she cry... somehow I feel I'm not a good enough mother...
But when ever my bb cry... my MIL always rush in one lor... and insist she carry the baby, although she can coax her finally when she finally... she will blame that is becos baby is hungry or say... aiya she wana comfort suck and give it back to me.
My hb also one kind.. ask him to coax bb always pass to his mother.
I also feel that my MIL seems to have "plot" to get bb to sleep close to her... anyway for night sleep I also wan baby to sleep with me.. no matter how tough, wake up many time... guess it's out protectve nature..
but I'm also taking things easy.. if MIL can coax bb to sleep... by all means... cos bb is finally still our bb mah... no matter what when she grow bigger and more dong shi.. she will know mummy is the best