<font face="Calisto mt"> Jus wanan vent some fustration here bout my MIL.
Yesterday had to go for prayer ritual for my deceased grandfather so left Janelle in my MIL's care. Passed her 5 bottles of EBM since estimated will b away for bout 5-6 hrs, also taught her how to warm up using e warmer, how to feed w syringe etc..
Came back in e evening & saw her feeding Janelle w milk bottle. I was angry but kept quiet as I know feeding w syringe will take v long so perhaps she dun hv e patient so used bottle instead. Also noticed tt e content in e milk bottle seemed abit different. I offered to wash e bottle after Janelle done but she refused, insisted to do it herself.
I was only gone for 5 hrs & she told me Janelle had finished all 5 bottles of 120ml EBM. I was v surprised as 120ml of EBM can last Janelle for at least 2 hrs, how could she hv finsihed all 5 bottles? I wanted to double confirm w MIL & she got fed up saying I dun trust her, wat would she want to do w my EBM etc... So I had to give up asking.
On my way home, HB secretly told me tt my MIL had poured away all my EBM cuz she thinks it's too diluted, sure not enuf for Janelle. She went to purchase a tin of FM & fed to Janelle instead.
I was really v pissed. I mean even if she wanted to feed FM to Janelle, she dun hv to pour away my EBM rite!! 5 bottles of 120ml, it took me so much effort & time & amt of sleep I scarfice to pump out & all went down e sewerage pipe
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I feel like thrashing it out w her but then scared put HB in a difficult position cuz he not supposed to tell me. Oh & she still got e cheek to ask HB pay her back for e milk bottle & FM</font>