Ling,
Sometimes it's good just to talk/msn with your gf and assure her that she still has friends and family for support. The same thing happened to my good friend recently as well. Hubby went for someone else and they just filed for divorce. It sad to see a family broken up and the child without a complete family. I used to think that these happen to other people and not those around me, but it's already happening...scary. The good part was that my gf is working and she has custody of her 2 year old.
I think for all of us, we should remember that although most of our world revolve around our babies now, we must also not neglect the r/ship between husband and wife.
Sometimes it's good just to talk/msn with your gf and assure her that she still has friends and family for support. The same thing happened to my good friend recently as well. Hubby went for someone else and they just filed for divorce. It sad to see a family broken up and the child without a complete family. I used to think that these happen to other people and not those around me, but it's already happening...scary. The good part was that my gf is working and she has custody of her 2 year old.
I think for all of us, we should remember that although most of our world revolve around our babies now, we must also not neglect the r/ship between husband and wife.