Tigger,
no lar, i din see ur tummy. Btw to me u no tummy lar. Was wondering any of our mummies saw ur tummy at beach or not lor.. but recalling bk.. SP aint in the beach.. hmm..
SC,
oh ya hor! better dun bring any heinz then. i nearly forgot. I rem my colic was being checked cos she brought Suan Mei to Oz..
Hey u take care too as well.. 1st trim always like this.. v fast all thes tong ku will be over liao..
Serene / San,
hehe MC queen is here today.. me ok liao.. only some mild cough & phlegm. Think i slept too late past few days , so yday really headache & feel sick lor.
Thanks Sherilyn for the kiss!
Btw i agree.. office poor ventilation.. i feel i can feel more unwell when in air con room leh ..
btw.. errrhhh..u 3 hah.. can dun put my real name in posting or not..
Hoho,
ya i agreed ur points.
btw, my poor niece.. this year she started to get bullied by her 2 frens at CC..
She was being pinched by them. & is hard pinch.. ALways a meek gal, she let them pinch .. & she dun dare to voice up to the teacher. She only dare to tell her mum. Then due to this, she dun dare to go to school for few days. Sighs. We already told her must tell teacher or retaliate when such things happen again. But dunno she got listen to us or not. Of cos wat i mean 'retaliate' is when teacher really not aro, & no1 is there to save her.
I'm not encouraging her to fight wif her frens. But i always believe in self-protection. U need to stand up for urself when no1 is there to save u. I dun like my kid always being 'sheltered', this may cause the kid to be meek & dun dare to try this & that & worst is getting bullied all the rest of school days & even worst working life.
At this young age, we must really expose our kids to all kinda stuffs. Of cos not those violent or raping stuffs lar. not yet.
Then we can explain to them this & that, why can & why cannot blah blah. Then when they older abit, understand more meanings & can talk better, we re-enforce such cause & effect to them again.
I think this is more impt.
Rather than steer clear/forbid them from that 'grey' area since birth lor.
I seriously feel what we are doing now, our upbringing ways will make an impact to our kid's personalities.
Anw just my tots also. hee.