oh guys i got a good one,
everytime we feel like mad to our kid, think about this,
the way we treated them is the way they will behave.
how come?
everyone know that child learn from their parents right? or anyone that they look up too, in this case us SAHM mommies because we spend most of our time with them, if we show them passion and patient, they will become someone like that too, but if we don't show them that... you see where this is going?
so now let's think like it is an investment for our kids, don't let our kids become someone who have all our bad side (you know the side of you that every body told you it'd bad, like easily angry, complainer, spoilt, etc)..
so from now on show them that we're a good friend, a good listener, patient, and full of laughter (like the one we used to, when things are easier, come on, you all remember when ur teenager right? hanging out with friends, joking, we can give our kids a beautiful childhood right? come on... just laugh, plenty of laugh in the house, ease your heart, enough with the burden of expectation, expectation that you give to yourself, like house have to be clean and tidy, kids have to do that or this, etc.. they only kids
we're the one who brought them in this world
come on!! admit it, if you see your kids giggle don't it make a smile on your face, yes, yes discipline is important, but if that make a heart turn cold, why don't we just adjust..... make it a happy discipline,
cellin more listened if i use a soft voice and a smile, she like it when i greet her, applause her, it bring out more of her good side..
don't get me wrong, i'm not telling you ladies what to do because all the bad side i told you is from me
so i'm still try to get the hang of it...
so come on!! lift our spirit up!!
now when i'm mad i try to think something else before i'm exploded... hik hik yesterday cellin broke my glasses
sighhhh i have to keep in mind she didn't understand yet, she didn't understand i needed it.....