hong,
sorry I was too worked out when I saw your teacher's comments.
Time - it's up to us to arrange, but most singaporean kids spend them in school & extra classes
bread and butter - Got money, eat branded ones, else settle for cheapest (in our case)
good conduct - I believe manners & conduct starts at home & should be consistant, if we are concious if it, then it should not be a problem.
I agree with mom2nat on "If you have 3, they just grow up tog oso. Prob you v siong the first few yrs, later will be better liao."
But plan further (it's going to be 30years later),
when we are old & sick, the "2" that you love so much will be also very tired to look after us,
always better to have more, else check ourselves into some old folk's home...
My 80+ year old grandma,
she's bed ridden with stroke, can't walk on her own anymore,
spend 95% of her time in bed.
She has 12 children & 30+ grandchildren.
But those who visit her regularly are few,
all need to work or have own commitment.
Anyway, there's still time to consider,
or "room" for 3rd accident? hehehe...
Do discuss with DH.
Sorry for my long post this afternoon...