hi catherine!
So sad for that kid!
I'm sure he'd give anything to go to school and be normal and have friends to play with. If I were him, I'd act stupid and fail a few tests just to stay in his grade!
I once had a student - brilliant in mind unfortunately lacking in social finesse; couldn't gel with the rest of the class. Kind of sad, coz he's always sitting alone and nobody laughed at his jokes.
That's the reason why I hesitate to do too much learning at home. Already I realise B is causing some rifts in class coz he's simply too restless during the in-between task time. I always fear that when a child knows too much, going to school will lose its novelty. And he might even start challenging the teacher's authority in class by his smart-aleck questions...
Yeah... we'll certainly be stunned once in a while by brilliant statements/questions they make at this age now, but believe me, I don't think a P1 teacher won't find it so funny and brilliant anymore, esp when the teacher struggles to work with the rest of 30odd students, who are also working real hard to follow.
Yet, then again, I'm caught in a dilemma: To teach or not to teach is the question, haha!!!
ANyway, that's why I'm choosing to do things really slowly, at a pace that the lazy me is comfortable in. As it is, i think my small little boy has accomplished more things than I ever had at his age. As long as he's within the developmental range for his age, I think I should be quite happy already.